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i don't know if this is bullying - January 22nd 2009, 01:02 PM

But me and my boyfriend split for a week and my mum told me to tell his ex so i did and she replied stuff like he's a time waster and i can do better, also he doesnt keep his promises, he's an asshole and such it really hurt me she was telling me not to meet with him and stuff, but Chris was really upset with what he done he couldn't stop crying so i thought doesn't everyone deserve a second chance so i gave him one and my mam is okay with it its just the ex she came on msn tonight and said i see your back with chris, and you obviously told him about the stuff i told you, but Chris wanted to know what she had said because ever since their split shes messed him bout so i blocked her then she sent a facebook message saying you're both as bad as each other, also i don't really care anymore. Its really got to me im so stressed with it all

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Re: i don't know if this is bullying - January 22nd 2009, 08:32 PM

that is another way to bully someone and yes she is trying to get on your nerves so if you just ignore her she'll just go away...
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Re: i don't know if this is bullying - January 22nd 2009, 09:29 PM

Hi -

I'm going to move this to Friends & Family as I think it fits better over there, if anyone disagrees though, feel free to move it back/to the appropriate forum. [:

It sounds like your boyfriend's ex is jealous, and that's why she's saying these things to you and him. It may be an attempt to get Chris to break up with you and go back to her. I know it may be frustrating but try to ignore what she says - so long as you two are happy together, it shouldn't matter what anyone else says or thinks.

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Re: i don't know if this is bullying - January 23rd 2009, 12:35 PM

Hey there Jodie,

You shouldn't let what that girl says change your decisions or judgment. Go over the facts for yourself and decide what is best for you. I don't she was being very nice about the whole situation by what she wrote, but it's probably best to ignore it right now.

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