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Friends just aren't coming through... - September 14th 2009, 08:42 AM

I know its a little selfish of me to think this, but none of my friends are coming through for me when I need them, and I always feel like they can and do come to me for help. I just feel drained, and now that I decide to rely on somebody, any one of my friends would do really, none of them are there for me.

I'm just tired and could use someone to talk to about my problems, my insecurities/set backs. Just some kind of morale boost I guess....even something like "hey, you're not a piece of shit, maybe a maggot, but not shit" would do hahaha

Idk...I'm just bitching, but there's no one else to talk to :/

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Re: Friends just aren't coming through... - September 14th 2009, 12:06 PM

Hey Luis,

I guess when friends come to you for advice and someone to lean on they forget you're human and forget that you have problems too exactly like they do. I would suggest speaking to your friends and letting them know that right now you need someone to lean on and you need time for them to listen because right now you're having a hard time and you just need good friends to be there and reasure you that things aren't nearly as bad as you think.
I'm sure they will come through for you Luis if they knew how you felt.
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Re: Friends just aren't coming through... - September 14th 2009, 01:18 PM

i know how you feel.. some times those people who you think are supposed to be there for you.. arent... Its like hello??? youre supposed to be my friends!! I dont expect my friends to be miracle workers and solve my prooblems but i do expect them to do for me what i do for them... which is let them talk to me about their problems and then i help them cope with them.. give them a shoulder to cry on and a great big hug when they need it.. Most of my friends never do any of that.. i know the feeling where it just feels like you need someone to say.. youre not as low as you feel.. or your not as pathetic as you feel or some one just to be there to listen..

trust me i do.. and i am always here if you need to talk.. ill listen and give you a virtual shoulder to lean on.. lol

As for your friends id try casually bringing it up in a convo... let them know youre hurting..
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