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WHY - January 22nd 2009, 06:08 PM

Why is it that no matter how much I try to forget a friend i cant? I dont know if I should talk to her or not.
Heres a little bit of background about are Friendship: I meet her last year in the middle of the school year at first I thoght she was to hyper and werid but once i got to know her she was really cool and she was exactly like me(so I thought). Well she was in foster care and one day she called me at like 6:30am and told me she was eather going to take some piulls or run away so I told her we would come and pick her up. We picked her up and convinced her to go to school. Well after school she ended up going to a friends house and not telling anybody. so her foster parent were calling me all the time to see if I knew were she was police called me her friend and everything. Well she got kicked out of the house and we offered to take her in. So she was living with use the whole summer. I liked it at first then I didnt I actally got to see the real her the one who slept all the time was a bitch. She was like controlling me(if i meet a friend that has a controlling mind I just go with what ever she wants me to) Well it costed me friends. We wouldnt talk for days then we would time of thing. In october we went to target and we both bought Razor Blades well I threw mine out that night and told my grandma and grandpa that she bought them to. well when she came home from school she was told to give them to my grandpa or she would get kicked out. She said she didnt have them to me but not to my grandpa so she got kicked out. Well I kept thinking it was all my fault and everything like that. well in december she contacted me and said she shes living with her grandma now and that she got the blackberry touch, and her belly pierced,books and cloths for her birthday(her grandma doesnt have a lot of money) She also said she was going to a school that two of her friends wanted to go to one of them was me. But she doesnt even live close to that school. Well I asked her other friend if she talked to her and she said yes and she told the friend the same thing she told me. Well she contacted me and said that the friend said i wanted to talk to her. Well i said no then finall ytold her that I didnt believe her about the phone and school. Well after that she started cyberbullying me she had someone prank call me on new years even I had enough so we called her grandma and told her and it stopped. Well two weeks later she said sorry two times the second time I said I forgave her(witch I didnt) but I dont think we should talk anymore.



And when she got kicked out of our house I relized that are friendship was based on pretty much all lies that came from her.

I miss her though i miss talking to her I miss having her as a friend. I just miss her and want her to be my friend again but then i dont.
I have no clue what to d. Should i start talking to her or not?
Can someone please help me im so confused and lost with this and with what i should do.


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Re: WHY - January 22nd 2009, 07:28 PM

ouch, in my opinion you should try to forget her, I know it's hard but she was sounds like she is bad news. If that was me I would be missing the fact that I lost a friend rather then missing the actual person, does this appy to you?
   
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Re: WHY - January 22nd 2009, 07:30 PM

ow.. im my opinion you should forget her.. any "Friend" who would do that isnt a friend... its a poser..






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Re: WHY - January 22nd 2009, 10:08 PM

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If that was me I would be missing the fact that I lost a friend rather then missing the actual person, does this appy to you?
I guess thats kind of it.
and I miss her to its just werid.
I cant keep a friend longer than a year but if i can they all just fade away eventally. Thats why I stopped trying to make new friends and if it happens it happens. Im not going to go out of my way anymore trying to find friend, or be a friend to someone. Like I have a new friend but thats because she was bugging me the first day of school but then she said sorry and somehow we just became friends.

So its the fact that it just proves to me Im not ment to have friends and or good ones. I just cant let go of anyone eeven if they hurt me I just cant seem to forget or let them go


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Re: WHY - January 22nd 2009, 10:18 PM

hey you'er my friend and that ain't gonna change
   
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