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Angry Ugh I'm so confused!!! - September 19th 2009, 07:24 PM

I'm in marching band, and wind enseble (if you even know what that is), because I tried out for it, and I got accepted!!!

I meet really cool people in marching band, including a boy named Sean. Well we are really close friends now, and one of my other best friends, Rachel, is getting really mad for some reason.

She yells at me for hanging out with him. I said, "Hi Sean!" In biology, and Rachel (happens to sit behind me) yells at me after class!!! She said, "WHY DO YOU ALWAYS MAKE FUN OF ME AND POST MEAN STUFF ON MYSPACE?!?!?" I said, "What are you talking about?" Her reply was, "EVERYTIME THAT YOU ARE WITH THAT SEAN BOY, YOU ALWAYS MAKE FUN OF ME! AND YOU KEEP POSTING ALL OF MY SECRETS UP ON MYSPACE FOR EVERYONE TO SEE! I'M NOT GOING TO BE YOUR FRIEND ANYMORE B****!" And then she left...she was VERY angry, BUT...

1) I don't make fun of her.
2) I don't even talk about her, at all, nowhere.
3) I DON'T have a MySpace.
4) Neither does she.

I'm so confused! Why is she acting this way!?!

And no, she doesn't like Sean, like <3 Kind of like.


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Re: Ugh I'm so confused!!! - September 20th 2009, 07:53 PM

Hi Kim,

Congratulations on getting accepted into the marching band and wind ensemble! That's really great. And I'm glad you are getting to know some new people and making some new friends.

Your friend's behaviour is really odd. I find it really strange that she would accuse you of making fun of her and telling her secrets on a site that neither of you are a part of. What it sounds like is that she is jealous that you are starting to make new friends and getting closer to other people. That seems really unfair, but maybe she just feels a bit left out.

I think you should talk to your friend about this and find out what's going on. Meet with her outside of school and away from other people. Talk face to face and try to get to the bottom of this. Explain to her that you are really confused and you don't understand why she is so upset right now. Let her know that you would like to fix things and continue to be her friend, and that hanging out with other people doesn't change that.

Don't let what your friend said stop you from hanging out with Sean. If you are good friends with him, then you should keep that. But try to figure out how your other friend feels and make sure you make time for her as well.

I hope you can get this sorted out.

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