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Question what happened to everyone? Help or advice? - September 26th 2009, 12:03 PM

Recently it feels like everyone I know..even the girl who is supposed to be my best friend are all changed.

they're being shallow, ignoring any contact I try to make with them, blowing me off with false excuses, hanging out with people who don't care about them just to be popular and generally just being shallow and selfish and fake.

I keep wondering if I did something to offend them, or I don't mean anything and I'm just totally worthless..or whether they'd only like me again if I started acting shallow and trying to be popular too.

and at the end of the day..don't they realise popularity is worthless cuz when they have some real problem that brings them down to earth they'll have no one to turn to?

Does anyone have any advice for me? cuz I literally have no friends now


never meant to cut so deep, just enough to bleed. are you a daemon sent to snare me? or my perfect fit..body and soul?
   
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Re: what happened to everyone? Help or advice? - September 27th 2009, 10:05 PM

maybe make new friends? cause clearly your other friends reached out, it could work! good luck! PM me if you need to talk!
   
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Re: what happened to everyone? Help or advice? - September 28th 2009, 02:09 AM

maybe they're being shallow and focusing on popularity to distract themselves from thier real problems.
maybe they just want to ignore the deep stuff bcos it's hurting them too much..
.. it helps to get closer to a friend by being with them on their own.
tht way they express their real ideas adn opinions and feel much less threatened.
..... usually, i've noticed, alot of the 'shallow' ppl r really just insecure.
... if one friend realizes she has a true friend in u, it's going to help her be her true self, and if u do it with 2 friends, 3, u've got urself a lil group..
this is another thing i've noticed, if i speak with sum1 and they feel comfortable around me, and if i speak to a second person and they do too, .. person A and B will usually feel comfortable around each other. enough to be super deep .. ..
... dnt give up on ur frnds, bcos when u cant reach them, sumtimes tht's when they need u most.
good luck!!
(but if they really r truely past rescueing shallow-let them go, and find urself a good frnd tht knows ur worth!)
   
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