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Weekend May Now Be Ruined - November 26th 2009, 10:31 PM

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WARNING: This is marked triggering because I'm SH will be mentioned and I just wanted to warn of that.

All right, well, I had surgery almost a month ago now. It was October 30th. My mom tried to text me a few times after it and I'd reply. By the time I'd have been able to go back to her house (I stayed at my dads just to make things easier while I was dealing with all the post-op stuff) it was tech week, which those involved in theater know is so busy and I also had lots of band that week as well.

My mom told one of my cousins this past Monday that she has given up on trying to talk to me because she keeps "getting hurt." The next day, she said she's "feeling sorry for herself." I haven't been able to talk with her because I've been extremely busy with everything and honestly, I'm bad at talking with people unless they contact me first. My dad pointed out to me something I sort of realized which is that my mom hasn't been trying to spend time with me unless I'd be staying the night. She hasn't even tried to have me eat dinner with her or anything.

Today, I sent her a text saying "happy thanksgiving" to try and see if she'd reply to me. Two hours later, I have gotten no reply. I decided I'd call my grandma and see if she'd meet my dad and I halfway between here and where my mom's side of the family lives so that I could still go to the family get-together tomorrow. She ended up acting like the only way I'd be going was if I'd go with my mom and like she just wants to throw my mom and I in a car together and see what would happen, which would probably not be the smartest idea.

I was looking forward to tomorrow so much all week because I haven't seen this side of my family since I think the beginning of this past summer and I miss them so much and it's always fun going there and being with them. And one of my friends knows that I've been looking forward to going out there tomorrow all week and knows that now I'm probably not going to be able to now because I can't find a way to get there. I have a feeling if I tell him or one of the other guys that I'm close to that I'm officially not able to go tomorrow, they won't let me stay home alone. At least two of them could probably guess that I'd be feeling like cutting from this, which I have now.

One of them just called me and is trying to calm me down. Which is helpful and a good thing, but I just don't know what I'm going to do for tomorrow now. My grandma is going to call me tomorrow and see if I can come but it's seeming like it's not going to work.


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Re: Weekend May Now Be Ruined - December 3rd 2009, 03:25 AM

I can't really offer any advice for this, but you've got cyber hugs and support. Sorry and good luck.
   
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