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whats your opinion - December 16th 2009, 10:23 PM

so i have two really good friends who are happening to be dating but thier relationship was in the gutter. The girl in the relationship yesterday said that she was pursuing another guy. i assumed that they were still involved so i asked if the guy was ok with this and she said yes. So i asked the guy on facebook out of curiosity, why he was ok with this and he said he had no clue what she was talking about. So it created at S%&# storm and they have seperated. So she is mad at me now. any reason for me to feel bad, cause i am sorry about it
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Re: whats your opinion - December 16th 2009, 10:32 PM

No, it's absolutely not your fault. She lied, that's it. If it hadn't been you it would have been someone else instead. You just asked an honest question, and you didn't have any reason not to. So don't beat yourself up over it.

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Re: whats your opinion - December 17th 2009, 07:16 PM

there's nothing wrong with what you did. she lied, so it's her fault, and she's in the wrong. and i know she won't see it this way, so here's your second argument.
you were just looking out for the guy. he's your friend, and you wanted to make sure he knew what was going on. he didn't, and this is not because of you. this is her fault.
also, she told you he knew, so why shouldn't you have mentioned it to him? if she hadn't wanted you to mention anything, she should've told you not to.
you have no reason to feel guilty, and i hope everything works out.
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Re: whats your opinion - December 18th 2009, 12:14 AM

thx guys it all worked out. no blame is on me anymore
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