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Unhappy My best friend is not aloud to hang out with me anymore? - December 28th 2009, 03:59 AM

So about 10 mins ago I got this text from my best friend,
"mom says i cant hang with bri anymore and ma phone will be taken please do not text back for now. bye..."
I guess im just a little confused and heart broken I do everything with her. What am I supposed to do now? She has helped me through so much and now she's not even aloud to hang out with me any more? I just don't know what to do and I'm really confused...


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Re: My best friend is not aloud to hang out with me anymore? - December 28th 2009, 02:47 PM

when is the next time you'll meet her??
she's probably feeling just as bad!! take comfort!

you two will probably miss each other a lot, and feel like your missing out on everything together!

when my best friend moved away, i made a scrap book, i wrote in it everyday, i let her know exactly what was happening so she wouldnt feel like she was so far.
i think it made her really happy!
maybe you can do that, and she too, i doubt she'd be forbidden that as well!!!
adn it seems like there is trouble at her end, if she makes a scarp book for you, she'll feel much better having something to focus on and vent out to!!!

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Re: My best friend is not aloud to hang out with me anymore? - December 28th 2009, 05:08 PM

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Re: My best friend is not aloud to hang out with me anymore? - December 28th 2009, 05:51 PM

well if she is trully your best friend and neather of you did anything to give her mom the empression that your a bad person I don't see why her mom is acting like this. Ferthermore from experiance eventually her mom will let go on the subject and let you to see echother again even if it takes her sneeking to see you and getting cought and grounded a few times. From experiance my mom hated one of my friends and even threatened the cops and other things I dare not say to my one friend and her family...that was 3 years ago or so and it took for me to defy my mom get grounded so many times when I had never been grounded before, my friends house to burn down, her moveing to my school, and her getting kicked out of her house and comming to live with me before my mom actually began to like her but now my mom calls my friend her daughter and she calls my mom mom so it more then likely work out for you and your friend never give up hope because if you wish try n work things out have her talk to her mom and u talk to her mom it will all work out in the end hope I helped
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Re: My best friend is not aloud to hang out with me anymore? - December 28th 2009, 07:55 PM

Hi there Brianna,

I know that this is a hard time for you. Maybe there was some underlying issues that need to be solved? Maybe if you guys go to school with eachother you can talk about what's going on.

I honestly hate it when parents tell you who you can and cannot be friends with. My parents have tried it, but it didn't happen. In the meantime, when you need help with something, your always more then welcome to come here and talk to us. We have many options, you could use the forums, and the chat room. Or you can use the HelpLink system which is run by staff members. Its an e-mail based support that you can get 3+ replies. The staff members who use it are normally in pink. There is also the Live Help when its online. Which is an online 1-to-1 support system run by staff members in teal usernames like mine.

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Re: My best friend is not aloud to hang out with me anymore? - December 28th 2009, 08:52 PM

I think you're at the age where parents should not be controlling social circles. Although obviously there is not much you can do in this situation except perhaps confront her mother (but make sure you act mature and confident, otherwise you might just back up the idea that you aren't a good friend for her daughter), or you wait until the next time you'll have the chance to see your friend in private. How long will this be? Perhaps get a friend to pass you the phone once you get your friend on there.



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Re: My best friend is not aloud to hang out with me anymore? - December 30th 2009, 08:22 PM

Thank you so much for the advice guys. I won't be able to see her again until Monday. I didn't do anything wrong and her mother has only met me once when she came to pick her up from my house after cheer leading tryouts cause we were practicing for the next day of tryouts together. Her mother has never even talked to me. My mom doesn't like my friend very much either because she made the cheer team and I didn't and I had way more experience with cheer leading then she did but my mom has never said that we couldn't hang out... I guess I'll talk to her when I see her Monday and see how that goes...

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In the meantime, when you need help with something, your always more then welcome to come here and talk to us. We have many options, you could use the forums, and the chat room. Or you can use the HelpLink system which is run by staff members. Its an e-mail based support that you can get 3+ replies. The staff members who use it are normally in pink. There is also the Live Help when its online. Which is an online 1-to-1 support system run by staff members in teal usernames like mine.
hehe thanks, I'm actually a former LHO I had to quit though cause I didn't have time for it anymore


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