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I wish my dad gets Killed - December 29th 2009, 10:51 PM

So many things to say about him....
Everything i say is taken wrong
He screams yells and blames my mom for everything
Im an idiot to him

He calls me 5 times a day and checks my room for drugs..

Everyday is a bitch slap to me

It may not seem like much but 15 years later i feel like dieing
   
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Re: I wish my dad gets Killed - December 30th 2009, 12:10 AM

Have you tried talking to him, all of you together ?
   
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Re: I wish my dad gets Killed - December 30th 2009, 01:55 AM

I don't know our situation but I know you didn't mean to say that. Try talking to him, he can't be that bad.


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Re: I wish my dad gets Killed - December 30th 2009, 06:24 AM

I stopped talking to him 2 weeks ago
And im not planning on it.
   
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Re: I wish my dad gets Killed - December 30th 2009, 06:57 AM

Hey Drew. I'm sorry you've been having problems with your dad. However, I don't think simply giving him the silent treatment is going to resolve things for you. I think you need to have an honest, mature talk with your dad. No yelling, no making each other feel guilty. I think you should let your dad know how you feel, and let him communicate with you and let you know how he's feeling as well. You need to have a heart to heart, and get to the bottom of things. Maybe your dad doesn't realize he's hurting you this much.

Maybe you could leave him a letter letting him know that you need to talk a few things over with him as soon as he gets the chance. Family members are people we can't simply will out of our lives. Believe it or not, I'm sure that your dad really loves and cares about you. You both may be angry with each other, but you should both at least make the effort to improve your relationship with each other.

Hopefully your dad will be willing to listen to you. If you want him to take your feelings into consideration, the first thing you need to do is let him know what they are. I hope things improve for you and your dad soon. Good luck!





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Re: I wish my dad gets Killed - December 30th 2009, 07:15 AM

I've been in the same situation, hey I still wish I'd get that phone call saying he's dead.
Life gets better, I mean that. This will make you stronger, more independant and generally a better person. Use your hatred. Let it push you forward. I feel like I'm shouting at my dad 'SEE, I dont need you and I'm not useless' every time I do something with my life, and its that feeling thats pushing me forward every day.
You'll be okay.
Honest.

For now, just, surround yourself with friends and things you love. Keep yourself happy and don't worry about anyone else.
Chin up love (I know, easier said then done)



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Re: I wish my dad gets Killed - December 30th 2009, 05:54 PM

Just as Amanda said. I agree with her. Without talking you will get nowhere.
   
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Re: I wish my dad gets Killed - December 30th 2009, 07:25 PM

You need to talk - there have been given some great words of advice above.

Just be careful what you wish for... I know how you feel, I've said the same thing... but when you finally see your Dad on his death bed in hospital - you'll wish you didn't say these things.

Talking can help fix relationship - wishing him dead will just make you both angry and resentful , life is too short to be annoyed at someone.

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Re: I wish my dad gets Killed - December 30th 2009, 07:32 PM

don't wish your father dead - whatever he has done he is still your father.. refusing to talk to him is just going to make the situation worse.


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Re: I wish my dad gets Killed - January 8th 2010, 12:43 AM

Hi Drew1,

You are doing right thing by not talking to your Dad. This is what I call passive way of protesting. Some people actively protest with the family members which I call as fight.

Many times we try to clear the difference of opinion between family members by talking but it lead towards fight most of the time because both the parties wants only other party to understand.

Even praying GOD in this situation might not help, but it can sometimes, you can try. Every saying in this life can be proven wrong after some time. This is world is full of duality.

Talking or not talking is optional, but make sure that you are expressing your Dad correctly.This is what you need to stick to.Time will come when your Dad will ask love from you.
   
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