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My friends really annoy me. - January 29th 2009, 09:45 PM

I have a feeling this is going to come out a lot more harsh than I want it to...but basically, my friends drive me crazy.

I'm not exactly sure I really consider them my friends, because I've never felt very comfortable around them, but they're the only people I actually have conversations and similar interests with. But, sometimes they can be really immature. I'm not saying this as suggesting that I'm better than them or more mature in anyway. But they act extremely..well, idk, strange, I guess. They get a lot of weird looks from other people a lot. And I guess that they don't care, but sometimes it annoys me. They'll make up really strange lyrics to songs and sing them at the top of their lungs, or make up really weird nicknames for each other...they call my one friend shower? Well, anyways, it kind of annoys the Hell out of me, because I wish they would grow up and act their age. Yet I could never tell them that. And my one 'friend' is obsessed with attention, and she never shuts up. She's lied to me to get attention about really serious things. She had me up all night crying a few months ago because she told me she was going to kill herself. See, the few friends that I do have act like this so much that I don't feel like their friends at all. And I would love to just move on to highschool and push them out of my life, but I found out that their going to the exact same high school as me. Joy to the world. I feel like the only reason I have these people to talk to is so I don't look like a huge idiot at school, but I don't think I consider them my friends. I just am scared of being alone...I'm not really sure what to do, to be honest.

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Re: My friends really annoy me. - January 29th 2009, 10:02 PM

your friends actually seem pretty cool to me...but that's just my opinion :-)
seriously though, i've had the same problem with friends before and i was in junior high at the time too i eventually figured out that those people weren't my friends and were just looking for attention. they lied to me about a lot of things because they though they were being nice, but then i got to high school and found my real friends who have helped me become the person i am today oh yeah, they do seem reeeally immature. i know a bunch of people like that, and at their age, they look and sound like complete and total idiots. it use to annoy the hell out of me, but now i just feel sorry for them.

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Re: My friends really annoy me. - January 30th 2009, 10:28 AM

Hey hun,
That must be really annoying. Have you tried talking to them about how they're making you feel, maybe they don't realize?

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Re: My friends really annoy me. - January 30th 2009, 12:14 PM

Hi Amanda,

I think the only major problem would be the friend who lies to you about really serious and important things. That one you need to talk to at some point and tell them that they shouldn't be doing that and if they are really in trouble, then you will support them, but they shouldn't be leading you on.

About the other friends, they just sound a little weird to me, but that's all. Eventually, they will probably grow out of this 'immaturity', but for now, just act like yourself and don't give reason for people to stare at you funny if that's not what you want. The immature ones are the people that will judge you completely based on your friends, and those are the ones you shouldn't care about. Let your friends be wacky and weird, they'll probably grow out of it.

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Re: My friends really annoy me. - January 31st 2009, 11:26 AM

Some of my friends are like that obnoxious wise but I'm actually fine with that. It's their way of self expression

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