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Mother - Father debate - March 29th 2010, 01:43 AM

Hey guys im new to this.

I came here in hopes to find some advice on what i should do.

I currently live with my dad, and im considering moving in with my mother.
My needs aren't being fulfilled, such as, ive been eating fast food for the last 2 years because my dad won't cook. We have a refrigerator but it freezes everything so i can't cook anything myself. I can't bring around a girlfriend because the house is totally trashed, i can clean it, but its back in 2 days just as bad. I have been trying to get my learners permit (I'm 16) and he doesn't even keep track of my birth certificate so i don't have proof im me. My dad has told me he will NOT remarry, and im getting to the point to where im failing school because i have no help with homework at all. My dad has been .. uh.. "Planting seeds" in my head about my mom but im not sure if any of it is true. he says my mom wouldn't take care of me, but i see my sister and she has all A's in her classes, she has her learners permit and i know they have the fun family moment's that i miss..i go down to visit during the summer and im pretty happy during the visit + i have a step dad and grandparents right up the road they live on.

should i move in with my mom? i don't know what to do..please give me some advice
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Re: Mother - Father debate - March 29th 2010, 01:58 AM

i believe u should live in the house that will help u the most. u should be happy where u are.
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Re: Mother - Father debate - March 29th 2010, 04:53 AM

When I read your post I noticed that you only made positive points about moving in with your mother. It seems like you have already made the decision, so I will only say good luck!
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Re: Mother - Father debate - March 29th 2010, 04:27 PM

Clearly, with all issues you have mentioned, they show you should move in with your mother. So, this is your choice, if in your heart you want to then go ahead. And since you need help with the stuff your mom can help you with then go ahead, it is your choice. But just tell your dad your decision and mention to him the reasons why you are doing it so as not to just leave him there alone without any mention of what is going on.

I came here to help out, so if you wanna talk or just need someone to bounce ideas or issues off of or something else then send me a message and I will reply as soon as I can.
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