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Question HELP!! Party tonight...my dad..?? - April 24th 2010, 03:09 PM

Heyy I'm going to a boy girl party tonight. I've been to lots before but tonight my mom won't be home so my dad has to take me to the party and pick me up from the party. I don't think I can get a ride from any of my friends. How can I get my dad to NOT come into the house with me? He's not the "talking" type, especially if its someone he doesnt know. I'm still afraid he'll come in, maybe not to take me there, but to pick me up he'll come in. He's sort of embarassing and I don't want my friends to laugh at him. I know that sounds mean but you should know what I'm talking about.


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Re: HELP!! Party tonight...my dad..?? - April 24th 2010, 07:26 PM

Just ask him to drop you off at the corner, so as he can watch you go in but doesnt actually 'go in' with you. You just have to be honest, your growing up and need your privacy.


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Re: HELP!! Party tonight...my dad..?? - April 24th 2010, 07:46 PM

Lol... rofl, my mum once went looking for me in the toilets when she was picking me up. **** It's somethin my dad would also do. They just never understand and will never see anything wrong with it.

Perhaps arrange to meet him outside the house at a certain time... but U'd have to stick to that time then, and make sure you are there when he arrives. Other option is ask him to call u on ur mobile when he's arrived.
   
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Re: HELP!! Party tonight...my dad..?? - April 24th 2010, 07:50 PM

Personally If a boy girl party is what I think you probably have no business going at your age? Correct me if I'm wrong and It's something else. Maybe It's better that you dad finds out.


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Re: HELP!! Party tonight...my dad..?? - April 24th 2010, 08:15 PM

What's wrong with boy/girl parties? I didn't even notice that bit. One of my biggest problems with schools in my country is almost every single one is either boys only or girls only. I think its stupid pulling the two apart. People start growing up disfunctional.
   
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Re: HELP!! Party tonight...my dad..?? - April 24th 2010, 08:20 PM

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What's wrong with boy/girl parties? I didn't even notice that bit. One of my biggest problems with schools in my country is almost every single one is either boys only or girls only. I think its stupid pulling the two apart. People start growing up disfunctional.
If she means she's going to a boy/girl party to hook up and makeup/have sex whatever, she's flipping fourteen. That's why all the kids are messed up because they do things to fast and at a young age. But anyways, good luck with the trying to not get into trouble with your dad bit...


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Re: HELP!! Party tonight...my dad..?? - April 24th 2010, 09:04 PM

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If she means she's going to a boy/girl party to hook up and makeup/have sex whatever, she's flipping fourteen. That's why all the kids are messed up because they do things to fast and at a young age. But anyways, good luck with the trying to not get into trouble with your dad bit...

I understand a bit better now... lol. There's always something to blame it on I guess. In UK they teach everything you need to know about sex etc in biology lessons by the age of 11, then you spend your next 5/7 years in a single-sex school. I just don't understand that... if you want to avoid 13 year old pregnancies why the hell tell them all about it before they even hit highschool?????

I think there should be no problem with boy/girl parties any age... if the kids are just brought up the right way. Obviously there's going to be problems if they are told at school about it and even have to pass an end-of-year exam on it.

I dont know much about what it's like outside UK... but this culture is global so I doubt it's much different.
   
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