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Unhappy My mom is ruining it for me - April 27th 2010, 08:50 PM

Guys and girls..Im very worried about my moms problems...Well not really i meen, There is not one single day i havent been yelled at...She said i had to get a freaking job and im just 14 :S...I was thinking of going to a foster home but when i come back my whole family will hate me...I know it i am the only one in the family that has the aftername as my dad everyone else is diffrent..They keep even picking me on fori t...My mom says i need to go to sleep at 11 PM when its school..If i can't go up watch some TV she would come in turn it off and yell like ''You fuc*ing need to sleep brat'' i mean seriously is this normal...Im afraid of her, I can't bring a girl home i think...I would love to have a GF but her toughts on that wouldn't be good..Ive fuc*ing talked to her 1000000 times about this nothing is helping...I need help she is ruining me from beeing a friggen teen
   
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Re: My mom is ruining it for me - April 28th 2010, 04:02 AM

Part of being a teen is figuring out what is and is not acceptable. Staying up and watching TV, when your mom clearly told you to go to sleep, is not acceptable. Being verbally abused by your family members for having a different last name is also not acceptable.

Are there any other family members that you could live with? It may be worth moving, even to another state, in order to get away from this abusive situation. If there aren't any other family members, then you may want to re-consider contacting Child Protective Services (CPS), or confiding in a trusted adult (teacher, counselor, neighbor, family friend) about what's going on.






   
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Re: My mom is ruining it for me - April 29th 2010, 06:50 AM

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Part of being a teen is figuring out what is and is not acceptable. Staying up and watching TV, when your mom clearly told you to go to sleep, is not acceptable. Being verbally abused by your family members for having a different last name is also not acceptable.

Are there any other family members that you could live with? It may be worth moving, even to another state, in order to get away from this abusive situation. If there aren't any other family members, then you may want to re-consider contacting Child Protective Services (CPS), or confiding in a trusted adult (teacher, counselor, neighbor, family friend) about what's going on.
There is no other family member...Child Protection, Might see whats up with that.But then my mom would hate me..But still...Its not like im watching TV to 5 in the morning, Just 30 mins to fall asleep.
   
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Re: My mom is ruining it for me - April 30th 2010, 04:40 AM

The only advice i can give is talk to ur OTHER family members and make a plan of action!
   
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Re: My mom is ruining it for me - May 2nd 2010, 11:22 AM

you tryed talking to your mother, but nothing had worked and now you are starting to think about going to foster home but afraid that your family will hate you. with all this anger and confusion within you the right thing to do would to go to ur school counselor and talk to them about, or you could talk to a close friend about it. now the bedtime on school days thats normal for a parent, let me tell you this if you had a parent that was so hard on wanting you to go to school and grad and go to college then thats a normal parent or mother. at times it might seem like she is being hard on you but you would have to think about it from her point of view. her yelling and swearing alot isnt normal, but maybe she has communicating problems with you, heres another advise you should observe the type of relationship she has with your bother or sisters if you have any and compare it cause maybe you are doing something wrong and something right
   
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