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family not caring - April 28th 2010, 02:39 PM

my family just dont care anymore, they really just dont care, i dont even feel as though i even know who my mum is anymore, shes always moody with me, telling me shes stressed, telling me to shut up, im fed up of it shes like just go away im stressed enough without you stressing me out but when my sisters neeed her shes there right away, she cares about them, its just me, its like no one in my family wants me, i bet if i just vanished she wouldnt notice or even care, she would probably be glad to see the back of me, no one would miss me, theres lives would be peaceful without me. im fed up of it. no one in my family seems to care if im upset, or not, its like im just this thing that everyone shouts at and tells to shut up and go away. im begining to wonder if ive done something wrong.



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Re: family not caring - April 28th 2010, 06:28 PM

*hugs* I'm so sorry to hear that your family members are treating you this way. =( I know this may seem fairly obvious... but have you tried talking to your mom about how you're feeling? You don't have to yell when she yells... just try to show her (calmly) that there's a difference between the way she interacts with you and your siblings. Maybe she's taking it all out on you because she believes you're the strongest sister, and can handle her ranting.

If you honestly believe that you've done something wrong, ask your family members (one-on-one) if you have offended or hurt them in some way, and how you can make amends. Maybe they think it's obvious, and that you're stubbornly refusing to apologize... when in reality, it could be something so, SO small and trivial, something that you would never notice unless they pointed it out to you.

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Re: family not caring - May 2nd 2010, 10:29 PM

I am sure that your family doesn't hate you, they probably don't even realize what they are doing, so like PSY said, even though it sounds simple and obvious. Sometimes talking is the best and easiest solution. When your mom is in a good mood try to bring it up in a nice way, same with your siblings, try not to yell or start putting them down, as this will get you nowhere. just calmly tell them about how you feel, if you get no response from them then just know that they don't hate you and we are all here for you. stay strong,
   
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