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Unhappy My Bestfriend - May 3rd 2010, 12:00 AM

This is the first time i am posting something on here so i may mess it up some.

Anyway i need help dealing with my best friend we are in the same grade. I meet her in 9th grade and we clicked, now we are in 11th grade. One of the reasons we get along is the fact that she knows i dont like her as more then friends. She has a fiance and we get along good. Now i like never got sad or depressed when near her and i can open up to her which i do alot. But these last few weeks it seems that she is ignoring me and doesnt want to talk to me. But when i ask her what is wrong she says nothin and walks away. This is starting to affect my emotions at school which i hide them so noone worries about. i just need help with what to do.
   
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Re: My Bestfriend - May 3rd 2010, 12:38 AM

When did you ask her what was wrong? If it was only a few days ago, I would give her some time... maybe she's just feeling a bit overwhelmed, and needs some time alone in order to get everything sorted out. If you asked her a few weeks ago, then I think you need to ask her again - and be persistent in your questioning. The next time you ask her what's wrong, and she says "nothing", give her the facts. She hasn't been talking to you, or hanging out with you. It's making you feel depressed, and you're wondering how you can remedy the situation. Just keep telling her these things, so that she realizes everything is NOT okay, and that she needs to be more honest with you and with herself.






   
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Re: My Bestfriend - May 3rd 2010, 05:07 AM

I asked her again yesterday, while i was asking where the group was meeting for prom, what was wrong and she just said nothin then hung up and at prom she didnt really talk to me much. She also kept taking my date to the bathroom for "girl talks"
   
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Re: My Bestfriend - May 3rd 2010, 08:12 AM

Hmmm. Well, maybe she was stressed about prom? And in order to relax throughout the evening, she kept hiding in the bathroom with your date?

I would give this a couple more days. Then, if she's still avoiding you, get in touch with her. If you could do it in person, that would be even better. Like I said in my previous post, BE PERSISTENT. If you can do this in person, she can't hang up on you, like she did yesterday.






   
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