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Jealousy and green with envy. - May 3rd 2010, 10:56 PM

This is quite complex, I will try to explain......


Im 24. I have a brother who is 20.

My mum sister (My aunt 1) Has twin girls who are 23 and a boy who is 19.

My dads sister (My aunt 2) Has 2 girls. One is 16 the other 15.

My dads brother (My uncle) has 2 boys, One is 16 the other 12.



Im jealous of all of them.

My brother drives. All my aunt 1's drive. They go out together, they all have partners, they travel the world. The other week one twin went to Las Vegas, whilst the other finished the London Marathon.
The 4 of them look much older than I do, I am fat, short, and ugly. I look a complete disgrace when I am near them. They all have perfect figures and I hate seeing any of them because I am insanly jealous.
They have many many many friends, and are always out, and each of them are working or at college, even university.


My aunt 2 is no better.

They are growing up, and although almost 10 years younger than me they have more of a social life, they, once more, have boyfriends, and go clubbing, or into London. One of them is a model. But they are both absoluetly gorgeous.

I dont know much about my dads brother, although what I know is that the older one is gorgeous and is learning to drive.



I guess what I am saying is, I hate my family because I just dont fit in.
I have no confidence and I because at one stage I was confident, it breaks my heart I feel this way, they are just living their lives. I shouldnt be jealous, but its hard because Im the older one, with no life experiance.
I am green with envy from all my cousins and brother.
Even my mum loves my cousins more than me.
I used to get along so well with my aunts 1 cousins, we were all best friend, but we drifted apart when we grew up. Well they grew up & whilst I stayed in hospital they started to live life.

I hate my family, but thats only because I am green with envy.


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Re: Jealousy and green with envy. - May 3rd 2010, 11:55 PM

Tbh, I can't come up with much to say. But, if you want to get over this jelousy, you have to accept yourself. They aren't doing anything wrong, I'm sure you know that. You've gotta get over your differences between you and others, its a barrier... then you are much more in control, rather than allowing yourself to get worked up over how different you might be. You got personal attributes which u should work on, everyone does... for example Ive seen some of your writing in the Self Expresion forum. Maybe it's not something to make a living off, but if it's something you enjoy, do it. If you enjoy doing something, you likely to get very good at it.

Im sorta feeling funny at the moment, so dont take it harsh if I said something a bit hard maybe lol. I dont mean it that way.


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