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Unhappy Worried - May 19th 2010, 02:33 PM

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Im worried about my friends. What Im putting them through. and im so annoyed at myself that abi couldnt tell me that she has been cutting. I feel like its my fault. and i cant stop beating myself up about it. my bf isnt doing so well either. they are all so worrid about me but i dont know how to ease their burdens because im worried myself! arg! i just want to hold abi in my arms and stop her from feeling so bad. its killing me! I want to help her so much. I need to do a bit more questioning first tho before I can give more advice. at least im good at giving advice on this! part of her feeling crap is my fault tho..and that is unbearable! Bleh, I just dont know what to do anymore.


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Re: Worried - May 20th 2010, 01:43 AM

That sounds like a difficult situation. I'm sorry to hear that things aren't going well with your friends. =( It's hard to help others when you're still trying to figure out how to help yourself, though. My advice is to take a step back (as painful as that may be) in order to focus on your own mental well-being... then, your friends/boyfriend will have one less thing to worry about, and once you're feeling stronger, you'll be able to offer the support and advice they're looking for. =)






   
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Re: Worried - May 20th 2010, 03:13 PM

but the thing is, im the only one that abi has got for advice on harming. she has support from others but not advice. so she needs me. i cant let her down. and my bf tells me his stuff but noone else.


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