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Lieing to my face - June 7th 2010, 04:47 AM

People I work with pretend to be my friend, say what they think I want to hear. I know what they truly think of me though but, they won't tell me to my face and that makes me kinda upset. They won't tell me the truth because they think I wont help them close anymore. All I want them to do is tell me the truth and I will still help them close because, I help for the hours which means more money.


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Re: Lieing to my face - June 7th 2010, 05:14 AM

Hm, before I respond more thoroughly, when you say you know what they truly think of you, is this because you have overheard them talking about you? Or is it built off of their treatment of you? Or is it simply you feeling insecure about the idea that they might be saying one thing to your face and another behind you're back?
   
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Re: Lieing to my face - June 7th 2010, 05:36 AM

So what do you think they think of you? (Boy, that was a confusing sentence.) Like Elliotte said, I'm wondering if you just suspect they feel a certain way about you, or if another co-worker said something when they thought you weren't listening, or if another co-worker told you what other co-workers thought of you.





   
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Re: Lieing to my face - June 7th 2010, 09:15 PM

How do you think they feel about you? Sometimes you can misunderstand things? Have you heard them talking about you? If so you may report it your boss or supervisor. If they are lying, you may want to sit down and talk with them about it. You can also just tell the truth in this way they will see you as honest and may respect you more.
   
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Re: Lieing to my face - June 7th 2010, 09:44 PM

Hi Crystal,

A lot of times I will worry that people have ill feelings towards me and dislike me, even when they tell me otherwise. Is this feeling that they dislike you due to something you've overheard them saying, or is it merely a hunch? If you haven't directly heard them saying they dislike you, or something that leads you to believe they dislike you, then your suspicions may not be accurate.

If you have heard them saying that they dislike you and will not tell you because they want your help, then they're idiots, and they're not worth your concern. But if you haven't heard them say it, then I wouldn't assume, because more often than not when we assume people hate us, we're wrong.





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Re: Lieing to my face - June 10th 2010, 04:33 AM

Are your thoughts based on word of others or hearing what people say when they think they cannot hear you? If so, then try to address it directly with those people. If not, then you may be projecting your depression and/or self-hate onto others by mistaking their actions and dialogue. Also, remember, people joke around so if you heard something or suspect something, depending on what was said it may have just been a joke that you misunderstood.

Try to also remember that your sadness and/or anger to them will be received by them and perhaps that will cause them to show some dislike. People read others quite fast and if you feel like this about all the collegues at your workplace, you would be projecting these feelings through body language, tone of voice, diction, etc... and they may do the same back because they would think you dislike them and show it in this very overt way.
   
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Re: Lieing to my face - June 15th 2010, 05:33 PM

Pretty much it is based on how they treat me during the day. They treat me one way during the day and one way at night while we close. Should I just ignore what I am pretty sure they all think of me until I have more logical proof? Maybe like hearing them talk about me behind my back or something...

P.S. Ignore me during the day, at like my friend during closing. (maybe reading to much into it)
P.S.S. Sorry for the late reply to my own thread, TH wouldn't work on my computer lately.


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