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my sister hates me - February 13th 2009, 12:58 AM

my sister told me she hated me and almost kicked me out of the house. the only reason she said i can stay is cause shes afraid she'll get arrested if the police find out she kicked me out. im scared shes gonna hurt me like my mom did right before she kicked both me and my sister out. i cant have that happen again. i've been hurt so many times in my life i just cant believe the person i look up to most is turning into my mom. its not fucking fair!!
   
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Re: my sister hates me - February 13th 2009, 06:51 AM

hey.

i think you'll have to have a heart to heart chat and tell her that what she's becoming is the person she LEAST wants to become. i believe that since that she's your sis, you can definitely reach her heart.

communication 's the key here. update us on how it goes.


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Re: my sister hates me - February 13th 2009, 06:23 PM

she said that she doesnt know how to be nice again. i miss my old sister
she said she doesnt want me and im scared of foster care
i want my sister to take care of me not people that idk
   
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Re: my sister hates me - February 13th 2009, 06:45 PM

Well, I guess the best you can do is talk to her and tell her how you feel. Tell you're sister that you love her and that she's the one you want by you're side. Hopefully, she'll listen to you.

If, not I don't know what to tell you. =/ Sorry.

I hope things get better between you and her.
   
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Re: my sister hates me - February 13th 2009, 07:50 PM

Hi there,

It sounds like your sister is pretty stressed lately. Talking with her about this would be a good idea. Since she was kicked out with you by your mom, then she knows what it's like. Maybe help her think up some other solutions that would make living together easier on the both of you. If there are ways you can both help out, then you should discuss those.

Just remember that if it does come down to foster care, then realize that even though you don't know those people, they are there to help you. They may be strangers, but they are just trying to help those in need.

I really hope you can sort things out with your sister.
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Re: my sister hates me - February 13th 2009, 09:53 PM

i dont want to be in foster care though.
i love my sister and want her to be the one to take care of me.
she just doesnt seem to get that
   
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Re: my sister hates me - February 14th 2009, 07:13 AM

if your sister says that she doesnt know how to be nice anymore, you need to show her how its like to love and be loved. i believe that you can truly reach out to her

you need to tell her and have the heart-to-heart chat to end all heart-to-heart chats (yeah so the dramatic term i know ) ..and she'll definitely start to show change.

and you CAN get through to her , definitely. you're her sister!!!


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Re: my sister hates me - February 14th 2009, 02:25 PM

im only her little sister
im a baby to her....yeah im 17 but shes 19 and gonna be 20 in a few months. and to be honest she scares me sometimes
when she gets mad i never kno if shs going to hit me
shes a lot better than my mom tho
my mom would beat me every day when i got home from school
kate has anger issues and takes it out on me.
   
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Re: my sister hates me - February 14th 2009, 03:31 PM

Is there a reason you fear your sister might hit you? Has she done this before? If she is being abusive, then it's not a safe environment for you, no matter how much you love her. It's not fair for you to fear for your safety in this kind of situation.

I think it would be a good idea to talk to your sister when she is calm. Set aside some time and just talk to her about how you're feeling, what you feel should happen, and why you want to stay with her. It wouldn't be productive to do this when she is angry or stressed, so try and find some time when she's calmer.

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Re: my sister hates me - February 14th 2009, 04:41 PM

shes hit me a lot before. there hav been times i've been hospitalized and shes been in jail for it. but shes still better than my mom is.
shes getting help for her anger issues by going to kick boxing.
and last night i had this guy i like come over and we watched a movie. we were home alone and when she came home we were hooking up. she flipped out on me and drove him home. then when she got bak to my house she didnt hurt me which was good but she screamed at me for an hour. she embaressed me in front of him and i rele rele like him. its not fair cause she treats me like such a baby
   
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