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Is my friend going to judge me? - June 24th 2010, 06:10 AM

Hey guys. So...I'm needlephobic and in August I'm going to get my physical and shot(s) (haven't set a date yet) and for support I've asked a friend to come with me. This of course means that we will be seeing me mostly (and possibly entirely) nude. I saw some pictures of him on Facebook today of him at a beach, most of them with him being topless, and he has like no body hair. By comparison, I've got like a forest just about everywhere. He's pretty mature but I think this may surprise him a little and I'm wondering if you think he'll judge me or anything because of this. Sorry in advance if this isn't the best forum for this thread.


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Re: Is my friend going to judge me? - June 24th 2010, 08:23 AM

I don't think you don't have to worry. If this person is a good enough friend that you would ask them to be emotional support, then I doubt that they would judge you like you're fearing


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Re: Is my friend going to judge me? - June 24th 2010, 11:11 PM

Some people are simply hairier than others. If this is the first time he's seeing someone with a "forest", then yeah, he might be a little surprised. However, chances are he's seen an older male relative or friend with more hair. If he's a good friend (and as mature as you say he is), there's no way he's going to judge you for something as silly as that. =)





   
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Re: Is my friend going to judge me? - June 24th 2010, 11:43 PM

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Re: Is my friend going to judge me? - June 26th 2010, 07:03 PM

I agree true friends don't judge on stuff like that, and since you say he is pretty mature I'm sure he won't mind being your support it's not he's fearless right? everyone fears something yours is needles big deal right? good luck man hope this helps
   
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Re: Is my friend going to judge me? - June 26th 2010, 07:16 PM

I dont think u need to worry. If the person is ur true friend they wont


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Re: Is my friend going to judge me? - June 26th 2010, 09:21 PM

Thanks guys. Unfortunately the two openings my doc has in August are the day before we go on vacation...horrible timing. That's not gonna work. So I'll have to put this off for a while.


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