Non-PG13: Bestfriend

[AshleyMichelle12]

So my best friend and i have been friends for 7 years all most 8 we have been through so much she moved we keep in concact she moved back a week before my birthday and i never found out tell 3 to 4 months later. she told me she wanted to sup me. But the way i found out was a myspace status update.

I have tryed talking to some of my friends and they tell me not to be friends with her but 7 years is alot to give up. But latley it feels like she makes things up. I mean this weekend i spent two days wit her and then she came to mine well when she left sh went to some girls house that she doesnt even like and ended up telling me that she was home and that she couldnt talk im fine wit that i didnt care the fct that she lied about being home idk wy. but the next morning i talked to her sister and she told me she never came home. So i texted her and she never wrote back to me ever sence then she also told her sister that if she keep telling me stuff she was going to delete the messanger.

But then i messaged asking if she was mad and she dosent member anything tht happened. So idk what i should do and i need some advice please help ?

[StabMyHeartLover]

I would give it some time.
Then try to have a talk with her in person about her lieing.
Somtimes people get so use to lieing they don't even relize their doing it.
A 7 year friendship is hard to get over but just give it some time & talk to her.
Don't do anything rash.
Why do all your friends tell you not to be freinds with her also?

[AshleyMichelle12]

They tell me not to be friends with her because they know everything that has happened and idk just dont want me to keep happeing. And thank yu

[PSY]

I'd give her some space. Maybe try contacting her once per week, versus every day or every other day. Wait for her to come to you, not the other way around. I know it's hard to give up a friendship, especially one that has lasted so long... but people change, and when people change, their friendships change as well. You can't change your friend, which means you can't change the nature of your friendship... unless SHE wants to change it.