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No one to talk to anymore... - July 7th 2010, 04:19 AM

I'm stressed out. I have a lot of stuff just building up inside me, and I know I need to let it out. And the people I always let it out to are my friends, a few ones in particular (because I trust them). There are 4 of my friends I could talk to:

The first one I've suddenly been growing apart from, and it's killing me. And since one of the things I'm stressed about is that, I can't really vent to him about it... since it's about him. Another stressful thing is my frequent urges to self-harm, which he does know I used to do but I don't think he enjoys hearing about it...

The second person is my ex. We're really close now, but a lot of my problems consist of boys -- and I'm not sure if he's quite over me yet :/ So I don't want to talk about that stuff if it'd make him upset. But I can talk to him about the urges, because he's the only other person that knows about it.

The third person is also a reason for one of my stresses, so I can't talk to him.

And the fourth doesn't really exist anymore because I no longer trust her. At all.


So I don't really know what to do... I just feel like I'm going to explode.
I know some of you may suggest to let it on on this site, but that's not really the same... y'know?
   
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Re: No one to talk to anymore... - July 8th 2010, 02:16 AM

Well its not the same but you should still let it out on the site.

Why do you feel you & your first friend are driffting away from eachother?
   
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Re: No one to talk to anymore... - July 9th 2010, 01:14 AM

You should definitely let it out here. It always helps to get an outsider's perspective (although I know it's nice to have someone who knows you personally) but it's best for your mental and physical health to talk about those things. Keeping it inside will only build up stress for you.

If you don't feel comfortable talking here, I've always kept a journal. While it doesn't give you a new perspective, you at least get to see your thoughts and hopefully get them out of your head, revisit them and think them through on a fresh brain

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