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What make me so different... - January 8th 2009, 06:56 AM

So yeah...for those of you who don't know I used to be Purpletiger, but i decided to change my username... you know to change my negative ways... kind of stupid I know... but ....

well anyways...

Since I moved out, like my mom previously said I could.... (although she did change her mind at the last minute)So I thought if she didn't want to keep her word than I would... so I did... I have been in contact with my grandmother... and my mom was mad at the fact apparently so yesterday when I went to go pick up my athletic clothes and books (ONLY for school). She had already given them to GoodWill... and I can't help but feel that she should go directly to Hell.. That doesn't make me a horrible person right....
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Re: What make me so different... - January 8th 2009, 07:23 AM

Well I don't know the previous story but it sounds like you and your Mum have a lot of issues. Has this been a long time coming or did you just move out on good terms?

I think what your mum did is harsh! I moved out of my Dads house 3 years ago and even thought my old room is now my little brothers, none of the things I left behind have been thrown out, not even clothes that don't fit! So I think your mum was a bit extreme and maybe even a little immature in doing that. But as I said, I don't know the previous.

If you've moved out now though and you and your mum don't get along, you quite simply don't have to see her that much anymore. Thats what I did with my family, we all had a bit of space. Now we get along much better as things aren't so strained. Hope this helped at all! x
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Re: What make me so different... - January 8th 2009, 11:54 AM

I don't think just thinking something will make you go to hell, though I do think you should try to talk to your mom. Maybe go through your grandmother to do this. By this I mean that maybe you could ask you grandmother to invite her to dinner and you could also be invited to the same dinner so that you are at a mutual house with a mutual person so that you can talk.

I don't think your mom was right giving your stuff away but everyone reacts differently to every situation. Just make sure you have all of your stuff and give it all some time and space.
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Re: What make me so different... - January 8th 2009, 01:10 PM

Idk the whole story between you and your mom, but what she did was really uncalled for. It doesn't make you a horrible person for being angry at her. She got rid of your clothes and school books with out your permission...because you had contact with your grandmother? That is rather extreme and kinda childish...

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Re: What make me so different... - January 9th 2009, 04:16 AM

The fact that you contacted (phone, in person, not sure on this) then a day later your mother is tossing your stuff out seems to me like there's a large piece of the story not told. Unless you believe in hell, heaven and all that stuff then you could theoretically go there. If you think rationally and don't, then you're not going to. If someone threw my stuff out to Goodwill, I'd be pretty pissed and they'd be most likely crippled in a torn-apart room.
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