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nervous about him calling - August 16th 2010, 10:02 AM

my dad who left when i was 2 finally called me, he was ment to call me the week before but atleast he called.i speant ll of this week hating him for not calling and wanting him to call me.now that he's been calling me i dont want him too because im too nervous to pick up to him because i have no idea what to say to him. i missed 7 calls in the past 2 days.but i just can't pick up to him, what should i do,i cant ignore him forever.but im too scared too answer

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Re: nervous about him calling - August 17th 2010, 02:58 AM

Personally, I don't think it's wrong to "ignore him forever". I mean, he hasn't been a presence in your life for... 13 years? Basically, your entire life? Why let him in now? Is it really that important to have your biological father around? If so, then suck it up and pick up the phone the next time he calls! Let your desire to have him around overcome your fear of talking to him for the first time. If you truly dread talking to him, though, and you have no desire to ever talk to him... then don't. Ignore his phone calls until he gives up, or pick up the phone and say that you don't want to have a relationship with him.

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