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She's such a slut! - February 18th 2009, 10:25 PM

What am i gonna do about her?
She is the village bicycle!!
shees gone for 6 lads in 2 weeks , slept with them 2 being lads she knew i liked!
I don't want to fall out with her
but she has really really hurt me
and now i just feel so depressed and it hurts.
wow what a friend....
She text me saying "I'm F'ing him right now lol" (to the lad i told her i liked) and he text me also saying the same.
what should i do? i let her walk all over me all the time!!!


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Re: She's such a slut! - February 18th 2009, 10:53 PM

Confront her about it. It seems that she's being very insensitive to your feelings right now, and if she is your friend then she should respect how you feel. Tell her that she's hurt you, and if she doesn't care or apologize, then I suggest finding a better friend. Let her know that you can't continue to be friends with her if she continues to hurt you, you deserve better than that kind of treatment. It's not right of her to walk all over you.





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Re: She's such a slut! - February 18th 2009, 11:50 PM

I agree with Vicki.
You don't have to walk away from the friendship right away. Talk to your friend and see what she has to say when you tell her that it bothers you. After that, if nothing changes and she still has complete disregard for your feelings, then you might have to decide if you want to move on or not. Good luck.





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Re: She's such a slut! - February 18th 2009, 11:52 PM

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What am i gonna do about her?
She is the village bicycle!!
shees gone for 6 lads in 2 weeks , slept with them 2 being lads she knew i liked!
I don't want to fall out with her
but she has really really hurt me
and now i just feel so depressed and it hurts.
wow what a friend....
She text me saying "I'm F'ing him right now lol" (to the lad i told her i liked) and he text me also saying the same.
what should i do? i let her walk all over me all the time!!!
She's obviously not your friend, I'd ignore her and never talk to her again. And if she is the village bicycle, eventually her tires will pop.


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Re: She's such a slut! - February 19th 2009, 03:01 AM

I agree with xHolyValorx. These types of people will never change... and if it's in her nature... it's just something that will keep hurting you over and over again. It's a toxic friendship, because it'll end up making you feel bad about yourself (already seems it has) and that's not what a friend should do. I know it'll be hard, but I think it will be better in the end for you!
   
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Re: She's such a slut! - February 19th 2009, 06:27 AM

Hey,
I agree with what everyones said.
I would let her know how you feel but try to do it polietly at first and if she doesnt respond to that, bring out the claws. Seriously that type of friend isn't a friend, she is an enemy. You shouldn't let anyone walk over you and I am just now trying to learn that as well. Friends should support you and bring you up not hurt you like she is doing.
About her sluttiness, she is going to be like that until she gets a reality check, you might be just the person to give it to her.
Good luck.
   
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Re: She's such a slut! - February 19th 2009, 10:11 AM

hey sophie.

it sounds like she's doing this because she's trying to get to you. dont let her get to you. the most important thing is to ignore her because someone who's trying to upset you in this way, is in NO WAY a good friend. i assure you there're far better friends out there

the most important thing is to find someone to talk to about this. someone you can confide and trust .. that will help you get through this. Dont bother about her because she's NOT worth your time

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