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new class mate contact - October 6th 2010, 10:56 PM

so at my school, there had been a huge schedal change. it affected 3000 out of 4000 students. i was one of the few in my grade level who kept all of my clases the same (this is high school, im a sophmore). so alot of my clases changed. well in my spanish class (last of the day) the person next to me changed. so ive been talking to her the last couple of days (i dont know if it matters but im male and shes well female ) so after class we walk to our lockers which are supprisingly close and so we walk to where she gets picked up and say bye. so finally to the question, i just got a facebook and i found out by typing her name in she has one. would you add her? also what would a good way to get her number so we can continue talking?

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Re: new class mate contact - October 6th 2010, 10:59 PM

Yeah. Add her. I would.
And about the number. How about ASKING her in person?
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Re: new class mate contact - October 6th 2010, 11:13 PM

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How about ASKING her in person?
of course in person but i mean like just flat out ask?
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Re: new class mate contact - October 6th 2010, 11:15 PM

Yes, add her on facebook. Build up a relationship with her by talking over facebook and in your spanish class. Once you're 'friends' then you could ask for her number.

It's not so difficult just talk to her Take care.

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Re: new class mate contact - October 8th 2010, 08:37 AM

Don't just go up to her and ask for her number because the average person would refuse since it's odd behaviour that can be seen as possibly threatening. Add her on FaceBook, chat on FaceBook too if you want but try to chat more in-person with her. It can be anything from asking how that course is and other courses are, and after a bit if the bond is strengthening, you can ask to buy her lunch or her phone number. Telling her you love her and want her number, depending on the girl, you'll get it on the spot, a weird look, told to "fuck off" or a kick on the tallywacker. See how she is around you first, whether she's friendly and you can have good conversations together while getting closer.

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Re: new class mate contact - October 8th 2010, 08:43 AM

Oh yes of course add her, it would just seem like a "oh I know her so I will add her" and there is nothing wrong with that. About the number, it would be best to ask her because if you were to txt her and she asked how you got her number and you said off facebook or something, she may think you were stalking her, and thats a real off-put. So ask her for her number, even if its just like casual "Hey what is your cell number?" Doesn't have to mean anything deep
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