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Question What The!?! - October 7th 2010, 09:44 PM

This started a couple of days ago.. Monday. Yeah. Ok and so during fifth period, i sit next to my ex-best friend. And she was acting really strange, like trying not to talk to me. So i sarcastically said to her: "Your acting like a bitch! What the fucks up?" (ok.. that may sound mean but me and her always talk[ed] like that to eachother...) and she said like really pissed off "Thats the nicest thing youve said to me all day!" and then completely ignored me. And i didnt get why she was going all off on me, so i asked her on tuesday "Brianna! WHy are you mad at me?" And she said "You talked shit on me behind my back you whore!" (i didnt sdsay anything about her behind her back) so i said "No, i didnt! Why are you mad at me?" and she yelled: "GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME! I GUESS YOU DONT CARE ABOUT OUR FRIENDSHIP THAT MUCH THEN!" And now shes completely ignoring me. My other friends don't see it but i really miss her. I tried talking to her about it today but she told me to fuck off and that im a lying whore. This is really hard on me...
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Re: What The!?! - October 7th 2010, 10:34 PM

I think you just need to wait a bit until she calms down and try to talk to her again. The only way you'll know what the situation is is if you ask her, but she needs to actually talk to you first. Just give her some time to get over it and ask her again. Don't rush these things, she's obviously a tad annoyed and just needs some time to calm down.

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Re: What The!?! - October 8th 2010, 12:01 AM

I agree that you should give her some space, at least for a little while. Do you share any common friends with her that might know what it is she thinks you said about her? Depending on the situation that might help you, when the two of you come to speaking terms again. Unfortunately around that age both guys and girls in general can get a little over dramatic. Chances are that you'll be able to talk it out once she comes to her senses.



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Re: What The!?! - October 8th 2010, 08:05 AM

The reason is obvious: she thinks you talked behind her back in a negative way. If you have friends who are also friends with her, try asking them if they can shed some light onto the situation. If you feel bold enough, ask some of her friends (even if they're not friends with you) about the situation. If they respond in a bitchy way, don't get uptight about it or fire back with insults. Try to see if they'll say what it is you apparently did or if they can provide evidence (i.e. something you posted online, said to someone in particular, etc...).

However, as 13 year old girls, the behaviours would be exaggerated. There are also always rumours and gossip going around even about the most ridiculous things. So bare in mind, she may be aware of this and you aren't.

There's also a possibility she may be facing issues with family not related to you but if you did something small, the stress of the family and her being annoyed of what you did may have set her off.


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Re: What The!?! - October 9th 2010, 12:59 AM

Thanks guys .. Shes talking to me again but I can still see shes pretty mad at me



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Re: What The!?! - October 16th 2010, 12:18 AM

I agree with what the people above me said. Just give her some space and then try again. Make sure not to turn it into and argument and make sure you both get your points across.
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