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My Friend Did Something REALLY Bad - October 14th 2010, 11:59 PM

One of my friends did something REALLY bad in front of another friend. Now that friend won't talk to any of her other friends (including me). It wasn't sex - but it might as well SHOULD have been with what is going on with that friend right now. What should I do? She has been traumatized badly ever since. Also, it was something done with a boyfriend, something that's not good at ALL. Right in front of another girl! I don't get WHY she did that! How am I supposed to react?


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Re: My Friend Did Something REALLY Bad - October 15th 2010, 12:04 AM

React the way you feel you should, go crazy, scream yell let it out.
   
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Re: My Friend Did Something REALLY Bad - October 15th 2010, 12:17 AM

Could that girl not of just wandered away if they started to do crude things in front of her? And I'm not too sure how this affects you though? Except they face your friend isn't talking to anyone.
   
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Re: My Friend Did Something REALLY Bad - October 15th 2010, 12:51 AM

She could have, but she was at the other girl's house. She did, however, cancel the sleepover and get her mother to pick her up.


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Re: My Friend Did Something REALLY Bad - October 15th 2010, 10:27 AM

It sounds like some sort of sexual act even if they weren't having intercourse. But I don't exactly understand this. Even if she was at the girl's house, she could have still left the room. Are you even sure she's traumatized and not just very angry or briefly distressed? Given the reaction you gave, it seems like it's something you and her disapprove of, so could it just be she's disgusted and doesn't want to see others because she's so disgusted, lost hope in friends and thus is alone?

As for why she did it, well you need to ask her that, however, if you have a girl and boyfriend sleeping over together, who do sexual acts, and another girl who isn't doing sexual acts also sleeps over (and anyone else), it's not surprising something sexual happened.


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