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my good for nothing brother - October 15th 2010, 06:35 AM

I have this douchebag of a brother and thing is, he was actually meant to be in university but since his a failure in life, he failed the exam to actually get in the uni. And he actually went to Germany (where the uni is) to do the exam and all and spent 3 months there and i was so HAPPY he was finally gone!!!!! but now his back because, like i said before, his a failure.
so now his going to england but thats in JANUARY!!!! thats so long and he makes my life a living hell! he makes me cry like every single day. im not even joking here. verbally and physically. im seriously mentally scarred because of him. once he a put a KING SIZED BED on me...and i was like 11 or 12.
and he dosent even respect my privacy. he just goes on my computer and looks through my files and same with my phone, camera and ipod. and he also just barges into my room. im a 14 year old girl and i need some respect and privacy. what dosent he get?
my family always take his side. ALWAYS. even if his saying bad things about me. and my dad wont even get me a laptop! i mean i kind of need one now since i write like 3 essays each week. but my brother got a laptop at my age.
his actually 18 but acts like a 8 year old.
i've always believed that things happen for a reason, but why on earth did he happen?

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Re: my good for nothing brother - October 16th 2010, 03:25 AM

I can totally relate. I have three younger brothers and I hate when my family favors them over me. But theres not much you can do. Have you explained to your parents about how he hurts you physically? thats NOT okay. Hes 18. your 14. and the Privacy thing, i can relate to that aswell. Im the only girl in a house of a bunch of guys. Lets be honest (no offense guys!), they dont get it. Girls need privacy.

Maybe your brother actually was struggling and thats why hes failed the test. try to talk to him. Maybe he needs someone totalk to. maybe hes going through a rough time.

It doesnt justify his behaviors at all, but It may help explain why hes acting the ay he does. get some answers at least. And as his little sister, he shouldnt be treating you like this.

If talking doesnt go over well, or you dont feel comfortalbe talking, write a letter. To your parents, brother, anyone you feel has the power to help or change things but they dont.

In order for people to understand how you feel ad find ways to help you, they have to be able to really hear it. Knock it into their heads. How badly you hurt from your brothers words and actions.

Unfortunatley, at 14 theres not much you can do other than try to get people to listen..

Im always here if you need advice or just need someone to vent to. itll be okay<3

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