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May belong under another topic - October 19th 2010, 07:43 AM

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Well, I had meet a friend (will call her cassy) at school (which i really dont talk to many people since i was abused as a child by my grandmother) so i had started talking to cassy and then we were eating lunh toghter and take the same bus home then last week she had told me that she started talking to another girl (Kim) and i told it was ok that if she wanted to spend time with her that was fine and then Cassy told that she was gay and i didnt think anything of it because i know that she had a boyfriend and i ask her if she was by or gay andshe said no but, just cant explain it, hte way i feel. So left it at that but, i started feeling really uncomfortable because she told me that the weekend that cassy and kim where actually having sex and cassy she like trying to get closer to me and she wasnt like that last year and i guess that is what making me feel uncomfortable is because i had a girl that was gay touched me under my shirt and si had ask her to stop and she wouldnt until the third time that i had ask her to and i just dont know what to do with cassey now

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Re: May belong under another topic - October 20th 2010, 12:24 AM

just explain to cassy that it is uncomfortable and you might not want to be around her as much


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Re: May belong under another topic - October 20th 2010, 10:11 PM

(Moving this to Friends & Family, as I feel it fits better there.. any mods disagree, feel free to drop me a PM or move it back. )



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Re: May belong under another topic - October 22nd 2010, 07:43 PM

Hey there,

I can totally understand why you would feel uncomfortable about this. You've had a bad experience in the past and you're just worried that it would happen again. Maybe you could just tell Cassy that you don't want to know any details about her sex life, and if she shows interest in you in a more of a friend sort of way, you could just tell her that you're not interested.

I'm sure she'll understand, take care.



   
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Re: May belong under another topic - October 24th 2010, 02:45 AM

its completely understandable that that would make you uncomfortable. i think you should talk to cassy and tell her that it made you uncomfortable!


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