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Am i in the wrong? - October 27th 2010, 04:40 AM

So.... I hadn't talked to one of my friends in ages, and she is friends with loads of my mates and (lets called her page) page was crying in class so i txted her saying im sorry and that i didnt want her to be upset, so we kinda made up. well we are not best friends again but we can talk with out snapping.

so then my other mate (lets call her molly), well molly is angry with me for making up with page.
ang molly thinks i've ditched them. (molly and page do not get along at all anymore).
molly sent me some hurt full txts saying..
"so you've gone back to page*"
"right well no point in joining with us anymore"
"sure go behind out backs and go back to her, You were'nt with us if you did that"
"..You've fully ditched us beka and ouch"

"oh yeah you still a friend obviously avoiding us and getting tam* to give us the evils and shit"

to explain that last txt, i had just gotten outof class and was crying, so i saw them and walked the other way cos i didnt wanna talk it over when i was crying, and i didnt get her to give the evils she just did it.

So iDK! Is it my fault for not wanting to hurt Page anymore so i made up. Did i cause this, am i to blame, or is what she said unfair?

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Re: Am i in the wrong? - October 29th 2010, 01:15 AM

To me it seems you made the right choice. Just tell your friends that you don't want a fight. She needed a friend,so you became one. And if thy still stick to their ideas just tell them that you don't mean any harm or anything and just let them be and go on with life.

I came here to help out, so if you wanna talk or just need someone to bounce ideas or issues off of or something else then send me a message and I will reply as soon as I can.
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