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I've never felt so betrayed - October 27th 2010, 11:42 PM

The other day my ex apologized for being such a jerk and asked to be friends. The problem with this? I made some mistakes in our relationship, but he told me he still loved me. I was trying to fix everything and get us back to the great couple we were. However, he broke up with me after a few weeks and become a total jerk to me. He told me he did it because he thought I got out of the relationship with no hardships, so he purposely was treating me that way. I don't even know how I feel, I still miss him and I love him, but at the same time I hate him for doing that to me. I want to still be friends because I miss talking to him, but at the same time I don't want to be hurt anymore. I just don't understand how he could say he loves me, then hurt me so bad and feel totally fine and be over me so fast. What should I do?


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Re: I've never felt so betrayed - October 28th 2010, 09:24 PM

You need to figure out weather you love him or you hate him...he sounds like a flake though do you really want to get back into that? He might not be as nice as he was and he could be a different guy than you love and miss..
   
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Re: I've never felt so betrayed - October 28th 2010, 10:54 PM

The only thing you could really do, is talk it through with him. We all do things out of anger, and we do a lot of things we regret. Clearly he wanted to get back at you for something. Only question is, are you prepared to put up with any hassle about being together? For example, if this happens again?

Only you can decide whether or not getting back with him is the right idea, this may sound mad, but you'll just know if it's right or not. All I can say is just take it easy. Really sit down and talk with him, and then decide what you want to do.

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Re: I've never felt so betrayed - October 30th 2010, 08:02 PM

Emotions can be tricky. You need to work with them because they are your core and control them so that they don't control you. So the thing is here, if you want to be friends with him, then be friends and put boundaries to keep the friendship strong. If you choose to be a couple again then be a couple and living well(let trust be there and all the rest of the things you need for a good relationship). As for you however, i suggest you let time help you out, by this i mean don't rush things at all.


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