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Question Kind of a rant... - October 28th 2010, 12:01 AM

Sorry because I know this is going to be long..
My best friend in the whole world is an amazing person.
However she is very complicated. When she was thirteen and obviously very impressionable she though taht she fell in love with a boy named..."Andy"
Andy and her were "together" for about a year...they talked about being married, what they would name their kid, where they would live and honeymoon. It was really different. I have to admit she is definitely an old soul, but anyways.
They broke up, she was mormon at the time and he wasn't, so she broke up with him becasue of that. For some reason at that point she became nearly obsessed with him. She always wanted to talk to him and she started sending him pictures of herself in the necklace he gave her...she began cutting and at one point she told him that life wasn't worth living if he wouldn't talk to her. He called his parents who called her parents who then thought she was suicidal.
It was bad. But then at our school school she found a new guy, he had just gotten out of a relationship with a girl because her parents made them break up because she wasn't 16. So my friend and this guy were a "thing" for about two weeks, yet she apparently fell head over heels. She was really strangely happy the day after he told her that he was in love with his "ex" who was pretty much always his girlfriend. My friend came to school today and was acting so sad. She started talking about death and stuff like that...
I told her that they new guy was acting really rude and she told me to shut up and get over it so I stormed off because I was mad, she was being mean all day. I was sick of it. She wrote me a note and said that if I couldn't accept her for who she was then I shouldn't bother. She later apologized and said that the note was rude and she shouldn't have said any of the things that she did. I just..don't know what to do...if you read that far thank you. I just needed to get that all out.
She really won't change her opinion on any of this..theres no way to make her see anything, I know theres no way to change her mind so I'm thinking that I just shouldn't talk to her about the new boy or Andy.
Thank you.
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Re: Kind of a rant... - October 29th 2010, 01:26 AM

Ok, emotions are burning and minds are racing. Well, here you need two things, sensibility and caution. Talk to your friend about it, it may be that she needs/wants to have an emotional connection to someone and that's why she is acting the way she is about this matter. Talk to her, and help her realize that she needs to listen to her heart and control her emotions and not let herself run wild with infatuations.

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