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Friend problems. - November 11th 2010, 03:18 AM

So, i'm pretty new at this type of thing....so i'm gonna take a stab at it. Um...how to start this out. Since highschool started I've had an interesting time finding friends and whatnot. But this one person that I was friends with or was a "so called" friend as you might say it hasn't exactly been on talking terms with me. I guess I kind of came off a little bit too strong and as they put it "obsessively talked to them and scared them" I've tried to fix this a million times and get along with them but I came to the last result and just left them alone. Even though i've done that they still ignore me...but in school I could say something to them and they'd answer....and mostly they just ignore me on the computer which really does not make sense!!!

What should I do? Should I continue to ignore this person and move on? Any ideas?
   
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Re: Friend problems. - November 11th 2010, 03:50 AM

a friendship is 2way. your putting in your effort, and theyre not. Personally, i dont think its worth it. If they ever reach out and want to be friends again, then its your decision if you think its worth it. But i think its better to have friends that actually want to be friends with you, and not totally ignore you.

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Re: Friend problems. - November 11th 2010, 12:11 PM

Hey there,

I've moved this over to Friends and Family, I think you'll get some better responses here. (:
   
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Re: Friend problems. - November 13th 2010, 04:48 PM

Hi there,

It seems like he or she doesn't appreciate you for who you are. Sure, you may be obsessive, but we can assume it's for good intentions. Maybe you like talking a lot and like to be around people. I think that's okay. Ashley is right, a friendship goes two ways. Right now, I think it's best for you to let go (but don't burn bridges) and try to meet new people who like you for who you are.
   
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