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Unhappy Why are they all turning on me? - November 12th 2010, 12:15 PM

I don't understand why my family is doing this to me.
I hate being home. I absolutely hate it.
I'm 17 years old and I am now realizing that I only have my senior year left in highschool, and I have no friends, so I'm making some.
My family doesn't like that.
They like me at home, laying in bed all day being lazy. That's what they consider "family time" although we don't even see each other.

I'm making friends. I go out with those friends almost every day.
I understand that they want me home, and I compromise. I stay home on days that they tell me to.

But why do they hate me now?
My brother has always hated me. He's 22.
He says I'm a whore.
Today one of my friends cleaned her car out and threw away some of her trash in our garbage bin. He threw such a fit this morning. He complained for an hour about it.
He always trys to convince my mother that I'm crap. I'm nothing but a whore, or a slut.. Sometimes I believe him.


My other brother thinks I'm scum too.
He's 30.
They both think I'm bad for my parents and that I shouldn't live here.
My dad agrees. I've been kicked out of my house about 4 or 5 times since August.

I love my dad, but I don't understand why he agrees.
They all want to get rid of me. I feel like I'll be in a foster home before I'm 18.

The 22 year old isn't adopted, but the 30 year old and I are.
They used to not get along either, but now that they do, they've turned on me.
What did I do wrong?
I'm scared to even walk out of my room when he and I are both home at the same time. I don't even want to look at him..
We can never hold a normal conversation. I'll run into him and he'll mention something about my clothes.. "Oh I see, now you're gonna go work your corner in those tight ass jeans?"
And I know it sounds like he's joking, but he's not.
He really thinks I'm a whore.

He always says something...
"You didn't take the trash out" That's your job, idiot.
"What are you doing?! Put the milk back in the fridge" I just took it out, and I haven't used it yet!
"Why do you have to fuck up all the time, why don't you just leave?" I'm sorry, I'll go.

What do I do? Please help me..
   
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Re: Why are they all turning on me? - November 15th 2010, 03:09 AM

Oh...wow.
When do you turn 18? You can leave then...without getting kicked out.
Same problem here...I'm not even close to 18 and my parents have threatened to kick me out.
My mom verbally and physically abuses me, same with my dad.
They won't let me wear shorts or really short sleeved shirts...and they pick out all my clothes.
If you need to vent, PM me anytime. I'm here for you!
   
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