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Is it wierd?? - February 23rd 2009, 12:59 AM

Ok this is sort of a weird question but...
So In the last couple months i've made a new friend. Very quickly we became super close. Now I think about her all the time. I've started to do alot of the same things she does. I feel as though shes my older sister ( shes 2 years older than me ) Like is it weird that im feeling so close to her after only 4 months. But since i dont have any sisters i figure thats another main reason. Its frusrtraing though cause i've never felt so myself around someone. She told me the same that she likes just beign around me cause she can just be her. If she dosent talk to me for a day i flip out and get a stomach ache. It dosent happen often but when it does I go sorta crazy. lol. Again im not sure what im asking other than the fact is this WIERD or am i just LUCKY.
PS: im not gay so im sure that has nothing to do with it.
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Re: Is it wierd?? - February 23rd 2009, 01:04 AM

I don't think it's too weird. It's kind of cool you have someone you can feel so comfortable with. Just make sure you don't get too attatched and still spend time with your family and other friends too.

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Re: Is it wierd?? - February 23rd 2009, 01:57 AM

I don't think it's weird, or anything along those lines. But I think you're a bit too close in the first place. Maybe distance yourself just a little bit. Not too much. Yes it's nice to have a best friend that's like a sister to you, but after 4 months and you guys are so close you have to really see what effect this has on your life.

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Re: Is it wierd?? - February 23rd 2009, 02:27 AM

You should be very happy that you found someone that you are close to.

If by weird you mean unusual then yes it is. You should be proud of it though not many people find friends like this.
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Re: Is it wierd?? - February 23rd 2009, 11:30 AM

They're right.

Hold on tight, but not too tight. I'm sure you've realized by now that if two people spend too much time together and no time independently, it's very easy to get irritated with each other and end the friendship: sometimes temporarily, sometimes permanently. So, yes, as Erica suggested, make time for other friends, your family, and your hobbies. Don't get too caught up in this girl. Glad you've found someone you trust so much, though. [: That's great.

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Re: Is it wierd?? - February 24th 2009, 12:12 AM

Thank you! i was starting to flip out a little lol. The only thing that sucks is were in choir together and i see her 3 days after school for 2 hours and spend every weekend with her traveling for choir so its really hard to seperated eachother. lol. I've tried to but she always come to me or i go to her lol. We sit by eachother on the bus and room together. so YEAH. the whole distancing might not work that well. BUt i realize it does word cause i have don it in the past and it helps. lol. but THanks again.
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