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Confused... - February 23rd 2009, 02:40 AM

so yeah basically i'm really confused...

recently i had a friend who blew up at me because i was protecting another friend...and well i decided that it was enough and i couldn't take it anymore...her always getting made at me for the littlest things

and yeah like i said i decided i couldn't take it anymore...that i had had enough and that just not being friends would be easier...but then i'm sitting here cleaning my room and i found a not that she wrote me last may and all i can think about is how much i miss her and how much i want her to be my friend again

i wanna be friends again but i can't take it when she says stuff about other people i care about...and then she says these things and goes to that person and acts like their best friend

but yeah i really wanna be friends again...i mean we have been friends since kindergarten and we are now juniors in high school...but i don't know how to go about trying to be friends again

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sorry...i guess this kinda sounds more like something i'm writing to myself


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Re: Confused... - February 23rd 2009, 03:32 AM

it's totally normal for someone to get under your skin. i have friends i've known for years that some of the things they do drive me insane. it's all about life. but, it's also totally normal to want to be friends with her again too. missing someone you've known for so long is a hard thing to do.

all you got to do is tell her that you don't appreciate how she talks about the other friends you have and that her opinoins should be kept to herself. and also tell her that you think it's wrong that she says all these bad things about these people and then goes and talks to them like she's their best friend. just tell her it hurts you and you don't like it. if she is truly your friend. she will understand.
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Re: Confused... - February 23rd 2009, 03:37 AM

i've tried to ask her to stop talking about them when i'm around and even when i'm not and she won't...


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