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Angry he's taken everything away from me !!! - November 30th 2010, 10:52 AM

okay soo... this is what happend about 19 years ago my parents where with other people. I have a half sister from my mother's pervious mariage ... and when I was born my dad made mum quit her job to take care of me then my grandmother died and we moved to spain becuase thats where she lived and seeming mum isnt to great with langues she never learned spanish anyway now that Im 15 my parents split up. I now live with my mum , my older sister and my five little brothers in holland and today my little brothers are going to go and live with my dad who has abusive behaviour now this is somthing else I hate but when we moved we had movers move us. Anyway dad said he would payg for us and now the lier wont pay up... wich he told mum today sooooo there for I don't have anything anymore apart from 5 pairs of jeans 9 shirts a couple of bras and two packs of undies a book , my ipod for the rest I have a scarf a coat a hat and two pairs of shoes and now that I dont have anything else but that and a toothbrush and hair brush he's allso taking my brothers away... and he says he wants me too come and visit asap and I just dont feel like I can do that becuase I feel so much hate towards him I had all my work in those boxes all my aquitment everything I just dont think I even want to know him anymore... please help me I know its long but please I need help

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Re: he's taken everything away from me !!! - December 8th 2010, 10:30 PM

please people someone must know how to help !
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Re: he's taken everything away from me !!! - December 8th 2010, 11:22 PM

This sounds like a complicated issue. Tbh I myself don't know what to say really. I think you're going to have to go over there as some point, or meet him face to face. I assume you go to school. Your school should have some professionals that might be able to help, I mean it's a genuine problem if you've lost all your books and equipment because of him, so they should help. It takes some balls to make a move like it, but I don't see many other options for you. It doesn't sound like your mum has a lot of power over the situation.

I'm not really clear 100% what's the position with your stuff though. Where you moving from his place, and now he won't pay for the move, so all your stuff is just staying at his house?


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Re: he's taken everything away from me !!! - December 9th 2010, 11:52 PM

You might need professional counselling to deal with visiting your father.
   
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Re: he's taken everything away from me !!! - December 10th 2010, 03:55 PM

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This sounds like a complicated issue. Tbh I myself don't know what to say really. I think you're going to have to go over there as some point, or meet him face to face. I assume you go to school. Your school should have some professionals that might be able to help, I mean it's a genuine problem if you've lost all your books and equipment because of him, so they should help. It takes some balls to make a move like it, but I don't see many other options for you. It doesn't sound like your mum has a lot of power over the situation.

I'm not really clear 100% what's the position with your stuff though. Where you moving from his place, and now he won't pay for the move, so all your stuff is just staying at his house?
I moved from spain to holand
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Re: he's taken everything away from me !!! - December 10th 2010, 06:55 PM

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I moved from spain to holand
An international move is gona make this soo much harder to deal with legally if that's what it comes down to


"I don't care about politics"
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