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I can't stop crying - December 5th 2010, 07:36 PM

For the past 2-3 weeks I've been extremely sensitive. I cry at the smallest gestures in videos and songs and I have cried at night 2-3 times and last night and today it seems the crying has increased greatly.

When I first started crying I didn't have a reason and when I tried to figure out what was wrong I just became more tearful and still couldn't figure out why.

Upon some reflection today and yesterday I think that I may miss my boyfriend greatly and I long for physical intimacy.

My boyfriend and I see each other 1-3 times a week, it is usually in class or around our school campus and therefore the intimate time we share is short lived, 3 hours at most and often very unphysical. We don't ever "make out" or enjoy long kisses or long hugs, usually because it becomes inappropriate in the public place we see each other.

Our love life is completely absent, I don't ever touch him and he doesn't ever touch me and there is no physical love making in this manner.

Over these few months I've also changed my sexual desires, they have become quite fierce and disgusting. After I relieve myself I usually dream of a man caressing a woman's back and although it brings me great grief to imagine such lovely moments it's more bearable than the crying that commences after relief.

I fine that when I cry I feel a heavy pit in my chest and I wish to be alone, I can't move and get up, and again I dream of hands and feet and a man caressing a woman's back. I struggle to lift the weight of my body, to be stronger and continue to demands of the day.

I am finding difficult completing my assignments and thinking of other things other than this man caressing this woman's back.

My boyfriend lives a far distance, in another city, his mother doesn't want me in his house and he feels uncomfortable in mine and I believe that perhaps my heart is impatient, maybe I need to be stronger. I don't know whether this crying is rational, whether my longing is reasoned. I'm quite hurt and my longing is immobilizing me, I don't understand if this is reasonable and would like to know what you all think..?

I just need to be more patient? I need to be stronger? Let time bring us a place to be closer perhaps.
Any words of kindness here in fact I think, would help me through.
   
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Re: I can't stop crying - December 6th 2010, 12:55 AM

Hey there. Ok, this is very different from what I have ever read but here I am reading it.
Ok, now you should understand one thing, when you love someone, it is not only expressed physically through touch and kissing and all other stuff, just being there is important, so just because you aren't touching each other doesn't mean that things are already going downhill and/or that you should begin worrying.

ow reading about your dream, it seems as though you are getting too deep into a physical desire that you need to get out of. You need to control yourself, your mind and body and not let yourself be controlled by your physical desires.

The crying might be related to that. It may be a way for you to release the sadness of perhaps feeling lonely or lacking that aspect of a relationship. In order to control that crying, you first need to control yourself.

Can I ask a question, is there anything relevant that happened and then the crying began ? Because it may be very well related.


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