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just friends x. - February 24th 2009, 12:02 AM

ok so I've been friends with this one girl for, oh say a year, give or take. We are both bi-sexual and out but you see I used to like her as more, but not anymore. I'm not even sure I like her as a friend. Second, I'm engaged already so this makes the situation more confusing/frustrating. So here's the thing, she never seemed to show a ton of interest in me romantically before but the other day she came, sat on my lap and started kissing me on my ear and around that area of my face. I didn't know how to respeond, it was just like WTF. Idk, and idk what to do about this. Her drug usage has caused way too many problems in our friendship

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Re: just friends x. - February 24th 2009, 01:48 AM

You're engaged and I'm guessing that means you love the person you're with. Your friend had her chance with you, no? And if you're not comfortable with her doing that kind of stuff, you need to tell her. And if the drugs have been a problem, well, who really wants to be with someone who does drugs?

I'm not saying to stop being her friend, but if you're confused you need to talk to her about it. Maybe be like, "So...a few nights ago you were kissing me...why?" or something. You'll more the less never figure out what happened unless you ask her about it.

When you fall, don't always expect someone to pick you up. Do it yourself, you're stronger then you think. Brush yourself off and keep your head high.

"She loves me, she loves me not, despite the fact I smell like pot, I write this poem to you Jessie, are you my lady love to be?" -

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