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can't stand to be here any more - February 25th 2009, 12:04 AM

So, I have absolutely ZERO relationship with my parents. And like I tried to form one. Like I'll go up to one of them and be like, "hey, can we hang out or do something sometime?" and they'll just blow me off and it will never happen. My dad yells at me all the time and then yells and cusses at me for crying and my just pretends it's not happening and stays quiet. I'm so sick of feeling like shit because of them. I've just decided to give up trying to make it work. I'm leaving for college after I graduate and I won't have to deal with them.
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Re: can't stand to be here any more - February 25th 2009, 12:08 AM

I'm glad you tried to make an effort. Don't completely give up on them though.Yes, it is your choice but I'm sure they care about you and if you didn't care you wouldn't have even tried. Just keep being friendly and don't let it bring you down. Have you tried talking to them about how you feel?

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Re: can't stand to be here any more - February 25th 2009, 07:42 PM

Originally Posted by elstarr05 View Post
Have you tried talking to them about how you feel?
i agree that this would be a good way to start. you can't give up on your parents. going to college won't get you rid of them. they're still your family.

if your dad is uncooperative, talk to your mum. work hard. it will hurt when they shout at you. but it doesn't mean you're in the wrong -- you're NOT.

best wishes, and good luck.
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Re: can't stand to be here any more - February 28th 2009, 01:24 AM

maybe you could try and see a family theripist person, they could solve all your problems. You could apply for funding if you wanted, good luck, Megz AKA rabdit


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