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Why doesn't it come naturally? - February 25th 2009, 02:22 AM


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Re: Why doesn't it come naturally? - February 25th 2009, 03:30 AM

I'd like to know the answer to this too. Being female I want to know how to meet guys without having them think of me as more or less. But I'd find one of the teen hangout spots that you're interested in hanging at and just find somebody to talk to I know it might be tough to start up a conversation but it you can do it i have faith in you.

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Re: Why doesn't it come naturally? - February 25th 2009, 07:34 PM

it's never easy making new friends, especially ones you're not comfortable around. you're right in saying bisexuality might make it a problem, though this doesn't seem to affect your ease around girls. i spent a week in summer with a group of teens (all but one were older than me) and one of them i found attractive. man, it was hard to make conversation!

stay natural, and just hang around. maybe ask one of your girl mates if they know any guys you might get on with? she'll probably have a good idea. there are ethical guys out there, too =)

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Re: Why doesn't it come naturally? - February 25th 2009, 09:54 PM

Hey Tieko,

It sounds like your friends are kidding around with you when they say that, because you do have friends. You shouldn't listen to that if you feel upset by it. Just try and ignore those comments.

There's nothing wrong with being friends with girls, but I understand that you want to make friends with other guys as well. Guys don't just like sports and cars, so I'm sure there's more than a few you could befriend.

Since you have strong opinions, have you considered joining a debating club or a youth activist group? If you have some at your school or in your area, you should definitely look into them. There are probably plenty of guys in them too. At colleges, they usually have a debating club, so that would be a cool thing to check out there when you go.

I know you said that they other guys you are friends with are busy, but that doesn't mean you should stop asking them to hang out. Find times when they are available and spend some time with them. If you're friends, then cliques shouldn't really matter.

I hope this goes well for you.


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