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Unhappy I just dont get it - December 29th 2010, 08:11 PM

This is why my mom isnt home. She hangs out with her friend. Her friend is sick but getting better. But she always over there and doesnt come home to like 10 or 11 o'clock at nite. I just dont understand. my mom is never around anymore. Shes always mad when she has to do stuff for us. I think one day its going to tair me down to pieces when she leaves us for good. Shes not the person that she used to be. Shes never happy anymore. she never has a smile. I cant tell her anything without her saying (WHAT!) I just dont understand. Me and my mom used to be good friends till her friend got back into her life then it went down hill. What do i do?


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Re: I just dont get it - December 29th 2010, 10:05 PM

...may I ask what's wrong with her friend?


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Unhappy Re: I just dont get it - January 2nd 2011, 07:39 PM

shes sick but shes better now. i just dont get it. I dont have my relationship with her anymore. she doesnt love me. she doesnt do anything for me. I hate her. She will regret it! Im so sick of her. i dont have a mom anymore. we used to be best of pals but not anymore.


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Re: I just dont get it - January 3rd 2011, 10:56 PM

I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through, Leslie. It sucks when you no longer feel as close to your parents as you used to. =( I know this may sound pretty obvious, but have you tried talking to your mom about what's going on in her life, outside of her duties as a mom? If she works, maybe she's under stress and is snapping at you for that reason. If she's having conflicts with her own family members and friends, that could be another reason why she's withdrawing from you. Generally, people don't just stop being friendly out of the blue... there's a reason for people behaving badly. I know this may be hard to do, but for one evening, try setting your feelings aside and genuinely give your mom the love and support she needs. A simple "I love you" and hug could go a long way for her, and make her realize how horribly she's been treating you lately. <3





   
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Unhappy Re: I just dont get it - January 3rd 2011, 11:07 PM

She doesn like me huggin her. When i say I Love You she says ok. She doesnt work. She hangs out with her friend that is getting better from being sick. Ive tried talking to her plenty of times about how she is treating me and she gets mad. I think shes sepperating away from me. Today was the worst day of my life. Bc i wanted to go spend my money and when she pulled in the drive way i asked her if she can take me to the store and she said no! I asked her why and she got mad. so i went into my room crying bc she never takes me anywhere. She never does anything for me. All she cares about is her friend. Shes never home. when she comes home shes either on the computer or talking to her friend on the phone. everytime we ask her to do something for us she gets mad. Today she gave me that Evil look like she was about to do something. Shes very selfish and hateful. When i was little we used to do alot of things together having the best of times. But when her friend came back into her life it just went all back down hill. I just dont know anymore.


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