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My dad - February 25th 2009, 11:45 PM

I dont know what to do my dad has a bad past and did stuff to me but thats not the point my point is my bf doesnt like him and becuase he said if we dont give him the 50 dollars we owe him right away then he was coming here well we paid him but now i dont talk to my dad no more and he calls me a bitch and only comes out to see his grandkids when he wants to not on my time only on his he doesnt like my bf and it sucks because if you think about it my bf and dad hate each other and my dad is rude to me and if i ever tell him something is wrong its not in his mind and he just doesnt care what i have to say whats on my mine is there anyway i can tell him how i feel without him yelling or getting mad or calling me names? please help i hate being stuck in the middle of this.
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Re: My dad - February 26th 2009, 07:54 AM

in my opinion you can help your dad first. which one you loves alot dad or b.f??? your dad could not want his daughter going in wrong hands. i suggest you that father is most important for you than your bf.
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Re: My dad - February 26th 2009, 05:33 PM

well i have been with him now for almost 4 years and we have 2 kids together and my dad really hasnt been in my life all that much since my mom and dad broke up almost 10 years ago and since he had his son.Like my dad doesnt care about what i have to say or that i hurt inside from what he did to me and how he was never really around it hurts and he doesnt care all he says to me is its in the past get over it and that really makes me hurt. It feels like i dont have a father and that now im to the point that if i get mairred that i dont want him to walk me down the ile i just wish he would listen and take in what i have to say and show some compasion to what i have to say. If only he didnt see me as a little girl anymore.
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Re: My dad - February 26th 2009, 07:41 PM

I disagree with helped. Your dad doesn't seem to be very supportive, or even civil to you, where your boyfriend has been with you and supported you for four years AND is the father of your children. Your dad may be an important part of your life, but I don't think that his actions as compared to those of your boyfriend give him some kind of advantage at all.

I don't know if it is possible to talk to him in a calm, civilized manner, but if it is, I think you need to talk to him about this. If he can't start to treat you right, I really think you need to give him an ultimatum: quit being such a jerk or quit seeing you and his grandkids.

*hugs* Hope everything turns out ok for you. PM me if you need anything else.


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