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Unhappy Bleh. - January 8th 2011, 03:22 AM

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So tonight it's my 18th party. I was helping my parents and my Mum was having a go at me for something. I was having a go at her back because I hate being yelled at. My Dad walked in and said to me "If you speak like that to me, I'll slap you. I'm sick of you always having the last word and yet your brother is never rude to us."
I was furious because not only was it none of my Dad's business but he threatened me with violence even though I'm 18. I'm sick of being compared to my brother and my parents saying that he's the better child because he's never rude to my parents. Well he is. My brother tells my parents to shut up and says stuff to me but because he's older and because my Dad is scared of him, he never get's told off. I always do and buy stuff for my parents but they still make me feel like crap, like I'm nothing. They don't realise just how much their words and actions hurt me. They think I'm fully recovered from depression but I'm not. I'm still hurting. And what their doing isn't help. Apparently all I do is cause them stress because I was a "bad" baby and because I SH'ed and had OCD. Sometimes I think that it be better if I didn't live in the same house as them, that it be better if I was adopted or I wasn't around them anymore. I just really don't want to be around anymore.

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Re: Bleh. - January 8th 2011, 03:40 AM

Well i havent experienced most of what youre going through...but i CAN offer some kind words

Maybe your parents just dont realize what they say REALLY hurts. Have you tried talking to them? or do they just not listen?
how about talking to your brother? Maybe you can let him know that there is a huge problem there and he is getting an unfair advantage because of his age.

Hope this helped...Good luck!
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Re: Bleh. - January 8th 2011, 05:07 AM

As above poster said have you tryed talking to them, if you feel like you can't talk to them, how about writing a letter explaining everything you have put on here, and how their words hurt you?
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Re: Bleh. - January 9th 2011, 01:59 PM

Hey Rianna. Parents suck sometimes, eh? Personally, I don't think it's right for your dad to threaten to hit you, no matter what. I mean, come on. You're 18 and well past the age where corporal punishment is considered okay. Anyways, that's not my point. You're 18 now...have you considered moving out on your own? That may help a bit. However, it's a drastic step and one you need to think a great deal about before taking. I think it's something to give a bit of thought to, though. <3 Take care. I'm always around.
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Re: Bleh. - January 9th 2011, 03:03 PM

Call the cops and explain that your dad threatened you. (:
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