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Exclamation parent problems - January 24th 2011, 07:29 PM

Hey, iv got a problem going on and i wasnt sure where to put it. sorry if its in the wrong place.

Anyways, my best friend and i so close i call him my big brother and i'm his little sister. He is a grade older than me though so thats part of the problem. Because of this i only get to see him on weekeneds and the bus ride to and from school. So about and hour and a half on most days. His little sister hasnt liiked my family for a long time now. she hates me even more now that im jacob's little sister, her other brothers friend, and her stepbrother's girlfriend. our familys used to be close to. now im the only one in mine that hangs out with them. She decided to start rumors about me and her step bro to make me sound like a slut. which also made her mom hate me. Her mom and mine recently got into an argument and she thinks my mom is a liar, which means all of us kids are liars. The argument was that kennedy keeps lieing about getting into fights with my brother jonathan. the thing is that im there and her brothers are there. we all agree that Kennedy is lieing. So why she thinks im a little liar i have no clue. But because of all this she says that me and jonathan arnt aloud to hang out with not only kennedy, but also jacob and zach. and if it was up to her james and i would be broken up and have no communication. Jacob thinks its best that we just keep hanging out but i'm not sure. i want to hang out still but maybe we should just give her a few days to cool down and think a litttle. Kennedy probably is gonna go home and tell on us for sitting together on the bus and i'm worried about jacob. The last time his mom asked him if i was giving kennedy a problem he told the truth. I was leaving her alone. Everybody around knew that to because i was asleep. He got slapped for teling the truth that i left her alone. I have no clue what to do. I dont want him to get slapped for being around me, but its not fair that they break up siblings one set of parents couldnt handle because of other people's fights. what do you guys think

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Re: parent problems - January 25th 2011, 01:09 PM

That's alot to take in haha.
I went through the same crap in 2009/2010. Without completely knowing the situation, what the people are like or knowing what the parentst are like (apart from the mother) I think you should speak to Jacob's little sister and try and smooth stuff out with her, no matter what she's done or what she may do (like going and telling her mum that you approched her) apologise and do whatever you have to so you can continue hanging out with your friends.

Like I said before I was in the same situation, almost, I just smoothed stuff out with the persons brother. Sort of let things settle down for a while and it all turned out fine

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Re: parent problems - January 25th 2011, 03:16 PM

thanks. ill try talking to her
   
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Re: parent problems - January 27th 2011, 05:01 AM

Yeah I don't think it's right of their parents to break you guys up because of a problem they have with yours. I would consider talking to the girl too, and maybe having a talk with the mom; maybe you can figure something out? Hope this helped! Carpe Diem.


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