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betrayed.. - February 28th 2009, 12:40 AM

i have a friend that i have known since the 6th grade..im not going to mention her name..well anyways we both ended up going to different middle schools..well now she has all these knew friends at her knew school..which i am really happy about..but lately she has been hanging out with this one friend that she only knew since this yr and like i havent seen her in like forever and she has seen this friend alot..and so i asked her if she thinks we can hangout and shes like i dont know bc i might have a sleepover with my friend..and like i feel hurt that she is treating me like this..


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Re: betrayed.. - February 28th 2009, 01:16 AM

Hey Rachana,
It is really hard to stay in contact with friends if they switch schools and you don't see them often. A lot has probably changed for her and you. Just keep trying to hang out with her but don't push it. It's probably easier for her to hang out with this other friend if she sees her at school and it's fun to get to know new people. Give her some more time and see what happens. I hope everything works out.


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Re: betrayed.. - February 28th 2009, 01:22 AM

hey there, its hard when your friends change isnt it. but youve gotta remember that now your at different schools, you guys are gonna have to have different friends. keep trying with her, but why not ask another friend from your school over?



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Re: betrayed.. - February 28th 2009, 01:39 AM

hey guys thanks..but like i txt her all the time... and we are really close..im going to try txting her and telling her how i feel


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Re: betrayed.. - February 28th 2009, 04:15 PM

I think that's a really great idea, Rachana. It's important for your friend to hear how you are feeling and that you still want to continue your friendship.

Just let her know that you really like spending time with her and that you think it's great that she's spending time with other friends too, but you would like to still see her.

It is really tough when friends go to different schools and it takes effort from both people to get together when they can. I'm sure you can pull it off.

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Re: betrayed.. - February 28th 2009, 10:43 PM

well guys...we got it worked out


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Re: betrayed.. - March 1st 2009, 11:22 PM

That's a hard situation, and no ones fault really.

I would try becoming friends with her friends. Get their AIM's and start talking to them. The next sleepover you'll surely be invited.
   
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Re: betrayed.. - March 2nd 2009, 11:50 PM

Hi Rachana,

I'm really glad you got this worked out. I'll close this for now. If you are having some trouble or want to talk, feel free to start a new post or PM me about it.

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