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I hate my sister!!!! - February 28th 2009, 06:56 PM

My sister is a domonic b*tch. She always ruins my life. Now, she is getting physical with me. I am crying right now because my boyfriend just went home. I cannot take it anymore. Why don't I just end my life right now, because everyone hates me.
   
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Re: I hate my sister!!!! - February 28th 2009, 07:06 PM

Wait, what?? Your boyfriend went home because your sister was physically assaulting you?


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Re: I hate my sister!!!! - February 28th 2009, 07:09 PM

Yeah...basically...he couldn't deal with it...bear in mind that my sister is only 11 and my boyfriend is autistic...
   
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Re: I hate my sister!!!! - February 28th 2009, 07:13 PM

Well, she's 11 so on one hand there isn't that much you can do, but she is old enough to understand some things so tell her that your boyfriend is autistic and he needs people around him to respect his needs. Tell her that she's being disrespectful to you when she is acting in such and such way, and if she wants attention, tell her that you're busy right now, but afterward (at some definite time) you'll hang out and do what she wants.. and then follow through.


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Re: I hate my sister!!!! - February 28th 2009, 07:17 PM

You dont understand!! Noone understands!!

Thats not what I was saying at all.......

I was saying that my sister....oh forget it....you wont understand.
   
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Re: I hate my sister!!!! - February 28th 2009, 07:21 PM

Hey, hey, don't worry about it. I just took a stab at the situation with the information you gave me.. I didn't mean to be mean at all. I'm really sorry if I misunderstood :/

Do you want to give us some more information so we can give you more helpful advice?


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Re: I hate my sister!!!! - February 28th 2009, 07:26 PM

My sister and I never had a good relationship. She thinks it is mendable because of one night where we got along. My boyfriend came over today and tried to include my sister. That was a big mistake. My sister pushed me and kicked me and of course she is going to lie about it to my mom. My mom will punish me but not her. It's not fair! I hate her so much!

I guess noone cares...

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Re: I hate my sister!!!! - March 2nd 2009, 11:33 PM

We do care about this, Chloe.

You need to tell your mom what happened, no matter how much your sister lies. Keep telling the truth and sticking up for yourself. You are the older sibling, and I'm sure you can make a good decision.

I think it would be best not to include your sister in activities you do with your boyfriend. If she is getting this violent, then she doesn't deserve any inclusion.

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Re: I hate my sister!!!! - March 2nd 2009, 11:40 PM

If your mom gets angry with you just talk to her and tell her the truth about what happened. Don't put up a fit or anything, just handle it by simply talking and telling your mom what really happened.

And I know it doesn't seem like it but your sister and you won't always get along so terribly for forever. I remember going through a rough patch like that with my sister and we never got along, but now she's my absolute best friend. You guys have each other for life, and things will eventually become better in your relationship. Maybe your sister just needs to mature a bit, and experience more things to have the right kind of attitude? Maybe have a calm talk with her about your boyfriend and how he needs to be treated nicely and it can't be hectic when he's around. Maybe she just doesn't quite understand?

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Re: I hate my sister!!!! - March 4th 2009, 02:08 AM

Chloe, you really ought to hear stories about my sister. I think I could relate to you at least. It really sucks to having relatives do these things, but it could always be worse. I really hope you are feeling better, and I want you to know that I care a lot. I really think it is possible for you to sort things out with your sister, even though in many cases it is not.
   
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