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Pathetic. - February 7th 2011, 05:50 AM

Hi. So, I've been having some trouble getting over the past.
It took me a little over a year but I'm finally over my ex. I just want to be his friend.
But, the thing is for that year I was a bitch to him. And we tried getting back together twice. Both times failed after a week. The third and final time we were together he dumped me saying he liked someone else. A few days later I find out that he's dating my best friend. I had to spend an entire week living with her and then a week at a church camp. I tried to make things work for us to stay friends but I just couldn't do it. It was too awkward. I ended up being kinda bitchy to both of them and said a couple of sarcastic remarks on facebook.
It turns out my friends really loved to gossip. So word got around that I love causing drama which isn't true at all.
A few weeks after everything I was having a sleepover with my new best friend. I was overly tired because I hadn't slept in two nights. My ex called me at 3 am after I had JUST fallen asleep so I was extremely pissed off. Turns out his friends (mine too) had dared him to call me to tell me that his dick gets hard when he talks to me. He hung up quickly and I called him back. I said something along the lines of, "I don't give a fuck about you and your penis." Anyway, I was on speaker phone and all of my friends heard me. They were already leaning towards his side because of my bitchiness.
Well, the next day after not sleeping for 3 nights I ended up telling my aunt what he had done. She promised not to tell my parents. (after all he was 18 and i was 16 he could have gotten arrested) She told them anyway and my dad had a talk with his dad. all that stuff. Then my friend's mom decided i should be uninvited to her son's party because of my drama with my ex. my mom got mad and went over to her house asking why i could no longer go. one of her sons (one of my friends) was standing there and he decided to make up stories about my mom cussing his mom out blah blah blah.
Everyone believed him and started to hate me.
I was already losing my best guy friend but after this i lost him for good. I'm still extremely upset over it too. I had no clue how much he meant to me until he was gone. this was all back in august and i had started losing his friendship around december 2009.
I guess I just don't know how to move on? I have about 3 friends and they're not all that great. One of them is though. And I have school. But that's about it. I'm 16 and in college so I don't get asked out at all. I just don't know what to do. I'm not pretty and I've been SH. I just need some advice on moving on.
Thanks to whoever actually read all of this.
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Re: Pathetic. - February 8th 2011, 12:43 AM

Hey there, Lizzie!

Sorry to hear about what happened. It sounds like a rather unfortunate series of events, and it wasn't entirely your fault that things turned out this way. My advice is to strengthen your friendships with the people whom you care about (and who like you in return), while joining clubs/organizations at your college and meeting new people that way. You may be too young to date, but you can still make friends (and possibly meet younger friends through your new friends - some of whom could be "boyfriend material").

Good luck!

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Re: Pathetic. - February 8th 2011, 02:01 AM

thanks! i might do that!
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