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Unhappy Losing Best Friend Need Help! - February 9th 2011, 02:04 AM

So recently my best friend wallblocked me on facebook so I deleted him as a friend on facebook. I texted him why he wall blocked me and he said his mom made him wallblock everyone who wrote innapropriate things on his wall so I texted him ok can you add me back as a friend on facebook and he wrote yeah. But he didn't do it and its been 2 days. So

I texted him yesterday:
Dude do u not like me? Or let alone want to be friends with me anymore? Cuz if that's how you feel its fine.... you probs won't respond back to this anyways. :/

Then I texted him:
Because like if that's what you want it's fine.....
(I accidentally texted him this twice)

And I thought he was mad at me or just ignoring his texts so I texted him Again:
Dude do u not like me? Or let alone want to be friends with me anymore? Cuz if that's how you feel its fine.... you probs won't respond back to this anyways. :/

I was unaware that he lost his phone yesterday so that's why he didn't text me back so I texted him AGAIN:
Seriously. Do you not like me? I just want to know. Like do you not want to be friends with me anymore? I want to know the truth
Alright that's cool don't respond I see how it is now. U obviously don't like me so I guess we shouldn't talk anymore.

So he finally responded to me:
Okay you're being fucking rediculous again. I lost my phone and computer priveleges for ONE day and you go crazy. Just stop. You're so obsessed. And everyone in brookline thinks you're obsessed with me. I'm sorry but you seriously need to stop

Me:Ok. Don't fucking talk to me anymore. At all. You're fucking conceited and confusing and your just adding more stress to my life

Him:Because I didn't answer my phone for one day? That makies sense.

Me:No just in general. If I'm so "obsessed" then I guess you don't need to talk to me or see me anymore because people are thinking the same thing over in Needham too.

Him: Okay, I denied it though but now I'm starting to believe it. I mean. You sent me eight text messages when I didn't reply to you. Are you kiddikng?

Me:K. Believe wat you want.Im sick of hearing it. I don't think I shud talk to you anymore or anything cuz you and everyoneelse has a problem with that. Let alone text you.Ibarely txt u and the 1day I do, u flip a shit. I do agree that 8 texts is 2 much But obviously Im "obsessed" with you so this will be the last text I send u.

And then he never responded back. I've been best friends with him for 9 years and we fight a lot. If you didn't catch on we live in different towns. I'm really upset and I'm afraid I'm going to lose him. OMFG I don't know what to do! I know I screwd up REALLY bad and he probs hates me! Should I not talk to him again? Please help me I don't have any Idea what to do! This is all my fault

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Re: Losing Best Friend Need Help! - February 9th 2011, 02:24 AM

You're 15. During puberty, alot of changes happen. Not just to You Know What. Your mind also changes and the way you think changes. As you mentioned, you have a stressful life - as does every adolescent. I have drifted far from a best friend of 5 years, just recently.

Friends come and go during high school, so if he doesnt want to be your friend anymore, it's his loss
   
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Re: Losing Best Friend Need Help! - February 9th 2011, 02:46 AM

If you are going through a lot of stress in your life at this point in time then it's possible that friendships may be stressed as well however I have to say that what you said and the fact you sent him eight texts is borderline harassment so I can see where he'd have a problem with it. The best thing for you to do right now is to give him a few days before you try to make contact again. If after that things don't seem to be going better then it might be time to move on. You even admitted that you and your friend fight a lot which, leads me to assume this isn't the first time things have gone wrong.
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